Are You Considering A Second Marriage: Giving Marriage Another Shot...Posted by Nick Niesen on October 27th, 2010 Before making another step in marrying again, are you ready to experience again the consequences of living again with someone? First, you must review the performance you made in your first marriage. You will ask to yourself, how could I be a better spouse? How come our union ended in divorce? What really went wrong? What weaknesses do I still need to work on? There are many questions remained in your first marriage. So you must able to answer first all unending questions before thinking to marry again. Second, know what you?re really looking for in a partner. Be sure of the character traits you want. Don?t force yourself to settle down just because you?re lonely and in dire need of a companion. Finally, let time answer your questions. Enjoy your freedom, at least for a moment and give yourself much time in finding your potential mate before you say ?I do? again. In entering another chapter in your life, second marriage is a very challenging obligation for you. Many different things will about to change in your everyday life when you finally decided in remarrying again. Freedom of you will be lost again. You must be prepared of the new responsibility you will take and how you take it with readiness. For marrying the second time around, there are lots of things to consider for making it a successful one. There are many situations you must able to fully understand in order to avoid again differences to your new spouse. These are the following: ?EXPECTATIONS FOR A HEALTHY MARRIAGE ?REALISTIC APPROACH OF LOVE ?POSITIVE ATTITUDE AND OUTLOOK IN LIFE ?COMMUNICATING ABOUT FEELINGS ?UNDERSTANDING AND ACCEPTING DIFFERENCES ?MAKING DECISIONS AND SETTLING ARGUMENTS ?COMMON SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION AND GOAL ?COMBINING A FAMILY In committing your life again to someone, make it sure that you are really serious and prepared. Sacrifice and true love must be your agenda as for marriage it?s not taken for granted. So to speak, may your second marriage be a successful and fruitful one. Best wishes and good luck. Like it? Share it!More by this author |