What is a dream? From Freud to Ludacris, it's been an elusive idea, indicating both an escape from reality and also an expression of hidden desire. In culture, dream works like a mirror: It reflects that we are, but in addition, it shapes what we get.
Love it or despise it, American culture's sexual fantasy of the moment is Fifty Shades of Grey. Since Random House bought the rights to the trilogy in 2012, the show has sold well over 100 million copies globally. Trailers for the movie version of the first publication have been viewed 250 million times, based on an advertisement aired in early February; it is predicted to gross at least million at the box office in its opening weekend.
And that usually means the Fifty Shades fantasy is going to become all the stronger. Yes, the story will likely reach an even larger crowd, but more importantly, it will be told in a new, visual form. After the film comes out, the Fifty Colours version of sexy, kinky sex will get explicit and exact, no more determined by the imaginations of readers. Early reports say the movie shows at least 20 full minutes of sex, although it's only rated R.
The story is rather easy. Anastasia Steele, a middle-class senior at Washington State University Vancouver, matches Christian Grey, a very handsome, debonair 27-year-old multi-millionaire CEO. They fall in love, hard and quick. Theirs is a love filled with drama and passion, and they wind up living the traditional American dream: love, marriage, and a kid.
What's not so standard is their sex. Early in the very first book, Ana discovers that Christian has a"dark secret": He's obsessed with BDSM--a condensed abbreviation for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism. This is the central tension of these books: Ana enjoys Christian, but she does not need to be his submissive; Christian enjoys Ana, but he is turned on by violent sex.
As many experienced BDSM practitioners emphasized to mepersonally, there are healthful, ethical tactics to consensually combine pain and sex. All of these need self-knowledge, communication abilities, and psychological maturity to be able to earn the sex secure and mutually gratifying. The issue is that Fifty Shades casually associates hot sex with violence, but without any of this context. Sometimes, Ana says yes to sex she is uncomfortable with because she's too shy to speak her thoughts, or because she's afraid of losing Christian; she gives permission when he would like to inflict pain, yet that does not prevent her from being harmed.
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Mayer Molloy Joined: January 27th, 2021 Articles Posted: 215
