Learn How Women Communicate

Posted by Nick Niesen on October 27th, 2010

We all know that this world is full of women, but
all are different. It is said that it is very
hard to understand women that's why here are some
true statements about how they communicate that
you can learn from and see how it applies to your
girlfriend, wife or other woman you know.

Women don?t need to have a particular reason to
talk; they like to talk because it creates
connection.

So they always want to have near them someone who
wants to listen and talk with them. Also, women
use talking as a way to release tension. There
are a lot of conflicts inside a couple about
communication because, for women, talking
something out over and over again eventually
dissipates the stuck energy around it.

They hate being told to get over it, that you don'
t have time to listen. If rambling conversation
drives you crazy or you don?t have a lot of time
let her know what time you do have and give her
the attention. You should listen to her without
trying to find a point or solution.

Women express their thinking and feeling process
out loud. Hearing themselves talk helps women get
clear on what is going on inside of them. The
process of expressing their thoughts out loud
actually allows them to figure out what they?re
thinking and feeling. So you should be a good
listener and show that you are interested in what
she thinks and feel. They don't like the men
which enjoy having a specific purpose for the
conversation.

Women communicate with details. They love details;
that?s why a woman?s interest in the details
about your life is not an attempt to interrogate
you or invade your privacy and their habit of
sharing the details of their life is not an
attempt to take up too much of your time. Rather,
they are trying to connect. If you want to
surprise her try to make some remarks using some
details for example the way she is dressed, the
color of her eyes...

Women minimize how upset they are. In order to
keep the peace, women often don?t express how
upset they really are. They don?t stand up for
themselves, and they downplay the severity of
their dissatisfaction.

When they said that are alright but still look
upset, they are still upset. If you take the time
to try to get a woman to say what she really
feels, that attempt alone will actually make her
feel better because she knows you cared enough to
try.

They don't like the men which, in order to avoid
a confrontation take her answer literally and
leave it when she says that is fine but still
look upset. They love to insist and find out what
she really think and try to make her feel better.

Show her that you care and it is important to you
her happiness.

In general, they like to have a lot of friends (I
mean girlfriends) with whom to share all their
thoughts, dreams and secrets which a man would
never understand. Most of them don't feel secure
to have an open talk with their partner and to be
completely honest like she is with her friends.

So women are well aware that most of the time
they are a profound mystery to men.