How to communicate with a partner about sexual health concerns

Posted by Dr. Arora's Clinic on January 9th, 2023

People tend to avoid conversations about sexual health and usually take it lightly. Even the partners are not typically comfortable sharing their feelings about sexual intimacy. However, we must emphasize the importance of open communication in a relationship. For some, it might be a grueling task. To help you, we will outline ways to talk with your partner about sexual health concerns.

Sexual health concerns

Anyone with an active sex life is bound to have one or another issue. Sex life cannot go on smoothly without any ups or downs. Not only dysfunctions, but there is also a lot you should discuss with your partner beforehand. The topics that usually need clear understanding are:

• Sexually transmitted diseases
• Consent about sexual relationships and limitations
• Difference in libido
• Contraception
• Family planning
• Sexual dysfunctions problem
• Sexual dissatisfaction

Maintaining an honest relationship has its merits, and it gets you closer to your partner. The emotional support keeps you going, and you know you have someone you can rely on. You know one person will always be truthful to you. Keeping something from your partner is neither good for nor for them, and with time it will only drive you away from each other. You have to learn ways to maintain a casual and honest relationship where you can share almost anything and everything.

Before you initiate your relationship, consent and boundaries, need to be set. The love language of every person may vary, and what is acceptable to you might not be acceptable to others. It is okay to plan a surprise and find ways to please your partner in life or in bed. The only thing you need to keep in mind is limitations. If you want to try something out of the box or different, you should perhaps talk to your partner first.

Having a different sexual appetite is another common issue and might create conflicts. It is natural to avoid being intimate with your partner when you are not in the mood. However, it might give wrong signals to your partner, and they might feel unloved or neglected. If you are on the other side with a higher sex drive, not having your partner around can be frustrating. It is better to resolve the issue by talking with each other and expressing your concerns. If you are in a happy relationship otherwise, you can always talk and meet midway.

The method of contraception and family planning is a personal call. The couple needs to sit down and decide what they want out of their lives. These are some major decisions of life and you need to be on the same page to live in harmony.

If you notice signs of a sexual dysfunction problem, you need to have a chat with your partner. Avoiding sexual intimacy is not going to serve any purpose. It might only give them wrong ideas and increase their curiosity. It is possible that the partners may start doubting themselves, and it might hit their self-esteem. Having an open discussion about sexual dysfunctions will help you understand your condition better, and the support will encourage you to get the treatment done. It will also unburden you and make you feel loved amongst all the chaos. Discussing sexually transmitted diseases and getting regular checks done is also your call, and you should be clear with your partner.

Even if you feel dissatisfied with your sex life, you need to be honest with your partner. It is part of your sexual health and you have every right to be content with your sex life. Let them know if they can do anything in a better way or if you would like them to do certain acts a certain way. It will only bring you closer and elevate your sexual experiences. 

To initiate a conversation, it is required to understand some key points. Choose a suitable time that should not be before or after sex, just when they come back from work, or when you have someone around. Choose a time slot when you both are relaxed and not in the hurry to go somewhere. At that point, break the ice by initiating a general conversation to confirm their mood. After which, start slowly and come to your point. Have a heartfelt discussion, and make sure you both listen to each other. Even if your partner is going through a sexual dysfunction problem, ask for support or extend support.

Bottom Line

Sexual health is of prime importance, and you should give it its due attention. Communicate with your partner to have a smooth relationship. Talking about your feelings will lighten you and help you trust your partner. Remember you and your partner make the strongest team against the entire world. So, nurture your relationship and be truthful. Sex doctor online consultation is available at Dr. Arora's Clinic where you can book your appointment from the comfort of your home.