How to Learn the Art of Seduction
Posted by Lucky Mileson on January 14th, 2024
Seducing a woman doesn’t require much effort, but it is sad that some guys overthink it and believe you have to go the extra mile to convince a lady. Put yourself in their shoes. What is the best approach to get your attention if the table turns around? No matter how strong or careless we are as humans, there is always a soft spot that gets our attention.
Most women are moved by what they hear, unlike the male folks who are attracted to what they see. To take the best shot, you must know how to put your words together, be patient, and be persistent. However, those qualities are not enough, below are some tips that can help you.
Talk, Listen and Prove it
One of the art of seduction that can never be outfashioned is listening distinctively when your potential partner or other half is talking. Listening is different from being quiet. To prove you are a good listener, you must show you understand what she is talking about. When she talks about what happened at their prom party when she was in high school, her favourite flower, food, or colour, you must remember them. Pay attention to body language too. When you are talking, notice the reception. If she is not into the conversation or her mood changes, then you should know there is a problem. To show you care, change the topic but ensure you ask why her countenance changed when she is calmer.
Even though seducing a lady of your dreams is not hard, you have to put in some work which is commitment. Why do you think most rich people prefer sex workers or using a fantasy phone sex website like www.fantasychatlines.com rather than asking a lady out? It is because most of them lack the time to invest in extra relationships. Real life relationships are not like a phone sex call where the receiver already knows where the conversation is heading; time and commitment is paramount.
Calm Down
This is an act that can make women like you naturally. Some guys are fond of talking about sex and telling the lady how they would kiss her or approach her sexually if they had the opportunity. Women do not like such conversations, and that might be the beginning of failure for you. Imagine someone who has been taken advantage of sexually, harassed, or raped hearing such a conversation from a man she just met… oh yeah! What do you think would be going on in her mind?
As a man, you have to be calm and leave your sexual advances aside. Talk to her like a friend, try to get to know her, and let her know you have her back without expecting anything in return. This act will allow you to build trust and "be heard" without complications.
Be Time Sensitive
This is an attribute both males and females need to work on. As a male folk, the fact that you have her cell phone number does mean you should call when you feel like it. What kind of man calls a lady at 6 am? Understand boundaries and the best time she would be happy to pick up your phone calls. Don’t overdo it, and don’t call at odd hours. It might be interpreted as laziness or insensitivity.
Ask her about her routine, and take time to text her during her lunch or late in the evening when she is refreshed. If your pen game is good, you would have a smiling princess, or she might probably pick up her phone and put a call through right away. When women are comfortable, they tend to do the unthinkable.
Make Her Laugh
Have you thought of why funny people usually end up with beautiful girls? It’s because they understand the psychology and chemistry of women. Women feel special when they have a partner that can make them laugh.
If you know how to tell jokes, this is the time to bring your A-game into the picture. Don’t feel embarrassed to tell jokes, make her laugh uncontrollably if you have the prowess.
Smell Good
Sadly, some guys leave the little things that matter and pay attention to what doesn’t count. No matter the kind of clothes you wear or how expensive your jewellery or wristwatch is, if you smell bad, you are already relegated. After all, you wouldn’t approach a lady who smells bad too.
To increase your chances of getting the girl of your dreams, make sure you dress in whatever you are comfortable in (not to impress), but ensure you smell good. Remember the phrase “smelling good is a good business” This might be the business they are talking about… lol. Not really, but no matter what you do, what you smell like should be a priority.
Conclusion
No doubt, seduction is a combination of artistry and science. If you understand how the women's mind is wired, and are willing to make the required sacrifice, you will effortlessly attract any woman of your choice.
While knowledge is not enough, we have shared some actionable hints that can help you get the woman of your dreams without much hard work. Pay close attention to the tips and act accordingly. Good luck!
