Looking for Help: Is my relationship an Abusive relationship?

Posted by richitalee on August 24th, 2016

I am Sarah, and I am worried about my relationship. I don’t know if I am actually in love or suffering from an abusive relationship. I am looking for someone who can help me identify if I am facing an abusive relationship or not!

I am in relationship with Kamal, we had met in February 2013. It has been great time we spent with one another. We loved each other and found that we are born to live together. I never felt that I was suffering from an abusive relationsip. We decided to marry and both were fond of each other. But Kamal was jobless those days; he decided to get a job. He couldn’t get a job in my country so he went to Australia, and he is now establishing there these days.

My parents wants me to get married with someone else, he is my cousin. I have talked with Kamal and he says that he is doing everything for me there, he shall come back soon and shall marry me after that. I have inquired him to convince my parents, I think he won’t succeed. I don’t want to hurt my parents. Though it has been great time we have spent with one other, we loved each other so much, we made fun and enjoyed our life a lot, I believe that I am in love with him, and I shall love him forever.

On the other hand, I am also in love my parents, I know that Kamal cannot come for back for years, I can actually wait for him but my parents claim that it’s good time for my marriage, I shall get older if I shall wait for him, and we are not sure how shall he become as he shall get rich.

So I have started feeling that I am in an abusive relationship with him. Is there anybody who can actually tell me if I am in abusive relationship or not? For more information visit here: http://www.junaidraza.com/abusive-relationships-how-to-identify-prevent-and-escape/