The need to keep thing organized around your house

Posted by Sophia Addison on September 3rd, 2016

When you have little kids inyour house, it will literally drive you crazy because they never will follow rules or would like to listen to what you have to say. It is necessary to make sure that your kid does not grow up spoilt and at the same time you do not want to be that too strict or too liberal parent. It might be the hardest thing to do. Therefore, we understand your helpless state and here are some ideas to help you solve the baby issue.

Stage -1: Hide them, do not introduce them

In this context, the word “them” stands for “the valuable things, like little malleable sovereigns or something like that” not the babies. Moreover, you cannot hide a baby when they are too loud all the times. They are adorable but they can make a normal man go nuts too. In this stage, there cognitive abilities are not developed and they will not understand what you are telling. They will try to interrupt feelings and emotions of the mother. When the emotions and feelings are seemed to be hostile, it will affect their growth because mother is the stable medium for the kid. When they do not feel safe, it will affect them. Therefore, it is better to pack the valuable items in cardboard cartons and make the house baby friendly by making sure there is no hard edges and things like that which is bad for them or where they can get hurt easily.

Stage -2: The active imitator

In this stage, babies are ego-centric and are attention seekers. They will need full attention at all times. This is probably not the good time to introduce these valuable things that needs to be kept safe. Here is the time you should learn to control their temper tantrums and teach them gratification when it comes to toys. You should make sure to keep feeding them at proper times. Then, provide them with toys and sippers. It is the time when they will grow their teeth. They will start biting and tasting everything. You should make sure to teach them they cannot bite fellow human beings and dirty things.

Stage -3: The curious learner

When they are trying to learn the answer for the questions like “why is it?”, “what ifs?” and similar other questions, then that is the perfect time to introduce the things to the kid. This is the time you should make sure that you do not have any kinds of unhealthy habits or improper habits like smoking or whatever you consider “unhealthy”. You should not replace everything at the same time. You should make sure to introduce or slowly ease them into the stimulus. If they had accidently broke or damages something, you should not go all mad, ferocious and angry on them. You should make them still and ask them to reason why they broke the item or the article. It is important to make the kid understand the gravity of the situation instead of being mad at them.