Trust Is Fundamental To A Good Relationship

Posted by Ema Smith on December 29th, 2018

A loving couple is not only successful because of the amount of affection that exists between them, it is also mainly due to the trust and mutual communication that they have.

Always seek to be honest with your partner to help the foundation of your relationship have the proper foundations, try to talk daily with your partner about how was your day and your way of feeling, do not be afraid to be judged. Remember that communication is the key to keeping them together even with the passage of time.

Sincerity is elementary to be able to control any crisis management that is present in your relationship, there is nothing worse than constantly lying and that the matter becomes more serious than it was originally.

Trust is a necessary value in our life. we need first of all to trust in ourselves, to be sure of our capacities and limitations. When we talk about trust in the couple, trust is a value that builds projects and hopes for the future, is nourished with constant support and grows when the two parties in the couple feel free to develop in their individual areas, while sharing and supporting the association with the other party.

It is worth taking into account that trusting an indispensable value for a healthy and happy coexistence, it is very easy to break it, often with unconscious acts and/or momentary emotions that were not thought to reach proportions beyond our control, and the Trust is destroyed and opaque the positive aspects and what has been built in the relationship.

When tillid i et forhold do not exist or ceased to exist, love in one of the two or in both dies. However, it is necessary to analyze carefully if there is a real reason to stop trusting, because it happens very often, that some gestures can be confused and end up accusing, celling the couple without reason and/or without proofs they just get carried away by what think, but we must also accept that many times there are real facts that hurt the trust in one of the two, but even so and if the two wish to continue together, you can work to rebuild the relationship. 

We know that unfounded jealousy is due to the insecurity of the person who suffers, does not trust anything or anyone and suffers from jealousy that is considered an obsession that requires psychological treatment and/or therapy to learn or accept that you have a problem but it can improve and save the union of the family.

The experiences together strengthen the tillid i et forhold, but it is important not to forget that the best way to avoid misunderstandings is to prevent putting frank communication into practice. Before reaching a more serious level of commitment, it is necessary to review our objectives to form or start a life together, as we will give support and affection and how we hope to receive it. Be honest with yourself, to be able, to be honest with others, especially with your partner. 

There are always and there will be sensitive issues, it is best to face them with sincerity, because lying kills trust, this does not imply that you have to talk about how good or bad we have lived in the past, first because whatever we have lived, it is something that belongs to our privacy and second, because there are people who take confidences as a weapon, to reproach and criticize us.

Trust in all areas of life is very important, let's foment it in ourselves first, so that others also trust in us, we cannot and should not go through life distrusting everything and everyone that would detract from beauty to life itself.