Female Hypergamy: What is it?

Posted by Jon Anthony on January 29th, 2019

What is female hypergamy? And why does it matter? This article will explore very important concepts that most men never dream to discover, and yet when you do discover them, your dating life will improve by leaps and bounds.

If you want to date your dream girl, you need to understand the concept of female hypergamy. But what is female hypergamy, though? In this article, we will discuss:

• What is female hypergamy?
• How to use it to your advantage
• Beta orbiters
• Shit tests (and how they relate to hypergamy)
• And more

So without further ado, let's get right to it.

What is Female Hypergamy?

To put it simply, female hypergamy is a woman's tendency to date men who are "better" than she is. So in other words, women rank men on the following things:

• Annual income
• Looks
• Social status
• Confidence

If, as a man, you have many of these, women will want you. If you have low income, are ugly, have low social status, and aren't confident, women will not want you, then.

Fortunately, as a man, you can learn to use female hypergamy to your advantage. One very effective way to improve your attractiveness to women is to simply set achievable goals and start improving your life.

For example, the more money you make, the better shape you get into, and the more confident you are, the more women will find you attractive. Achieving these things is very simple if you just create a goal and take action to achieve it.

Why Women Test You

Women test you to assure you are high enough for her standards. Men judge women primarily based off of looks, which is why it is so easy for us to determine if we are attracted to a woman.

Women on the other hand judge men based off of "non-visual" cues, such as confidence, social status, wealth, and overall image.

This is why women must shit test you. According to Masculine Development's article on why women shit test you:

"Generally speaking, any insult about your appearance is a shit test (when you’re hitting on a girl). Girls care very little about appearance, and much more about your game and status. This is what women truly want—a confident, cocky, badass man. Not some little boy."

"Tell me if this has ever happened to you: You go out to a nightclub, and you’re having a pretty good time. You’re dancing, vibing to the sound of Calvin Harris’s deep bass, when suddenly a stunning girl catches your eye."

"After lots of internal struggle, you work up the courage to go talk to her. The walk towards her is agonizing—your fear of rejection is slowly creeping up. Finally, you open her, and ask for her name."

“Sorry, I only talk to hot guys.” she says. You walk away feeling completely rejected, and wallow in self-pity for the rest of the night.

"That, my friend, was a shit test. And you just failed it."

To pass the shit test, you simply acknowledge her frame and amplify it. This is all that you must do. This shows that you are not emotionally affected by her frame, and that you are a high status man who she should be attracted to.

The Beta Orbiter

One thing that commonly happens due to female hypergamy, is that women will "keep you around" as a backup plan, in case their "primary interest" does not reciprocate interest to them.

This is known as being her "beta orbiter" and it is paramount that you stop doing this at once. Every second you orbit a woman without her interest, she will slowly lose attraction for you, and her female hypergamy will begin to kick in, meaning she despises you for being low status.

With female hypergamy, and with the dating market as a whole, it is important that you always focus on yourself first, and spend time to improve your own life. Without doing this first, nothing will ever improve for you.

Summary

In summary, female hypergamy is something that nobody can get around. Women tend to date up and across in the dating market, whereas men tend to date down and across.

This ensures that women can get the best possible genes, but also that the best possible men are able to spread their genes. It is a basic principle of evolutionary biology that this is how things are. Do not get upset, but simply accept them.

Accept that female hypergamy is very real, and that you must take action to improve your dating life so that you can find your dream girl. Take action, and you will thank me later.