Talking Dirty During Sex, And Hardcore Phonesex

Posted by sophiamilller on March 7th, 2012

Just because you know how to talk does not mean that you have the knowledge of really dirty sex chat. Even though really talking dirty while having sex is very arousing for people in general, many hesitate to actually do it. Usually, they fear that they might say the wrong things, offend their partner, or get laughed at. As is the case with other things that you'll want to try out in bed, you'll need to make sure that you get your partner's permission prior to using perverted and vulgar language to heat things up. Hardcore phonesex is also another way to test the waters.

Really dirty sex chat is basically trial & error. The fact of the matter is, all people are different, meaning just because one person loves it does not mean that another one will. Perhaps you've been in a situation where you were having sex and wanted to say it, but couldn't bring yourself to do it. Many people have been in the same situation as you, and many were able to get over themselves and were able to start initiating really dirty sex chat. You can, too. All you will have to deal with is your spouse's arousal!

It's not what you say, it's how you say it. This is a common phrase referring to communication between humans, and sex is no exception to this rule. You should picture in your mind how great the sex is and how important it is to the relationship, and how aroused you get from turning your partner on, and how you get so hot that you think that you will melt any minute when your spouse touches your body. Now you just need to explain all of this to your partner verbally. You can say things like “I want to run my fingers over your thighs, do you want me to?” Or “I get so turned on by the feeling of our bodies touching each other; it makes me feel so naughty”.

Be sure to have your partner partake in the really dirty sex chat. You can say something like “does it turn you on when I touch you?” Or how do you want me to touch you?” The trickiest part is coming up with the proper words, but practice makes perfection. In fact, you can even steal phrases from a love novel or an adult film. Take note of the things you want to say, practice them while you are alone, and then picture sex as a stage for you to speak at.

Talking dirty doesn't have to be limited to sex. Another great way to make use of it is with hardcore phonesex, which is particularly useful when the two of you are far from each other. While initiating hardcore phonesex, you two can tell each other how you are touching yourselves and what you want the other to do. Hardcore phonesex is also great practice for talking dirty when actually having sex. You can also flirt during the day, long before the time comes for sex, so that you can have your partner eagerly anticipating for the moment. Expectation, being eager, and turned on for a long time all contribute more pleasure to sex.

Want to do Really dirty sex chat? Pick your phone and start doing Hardcore Phonesex right now.