Not My Daughter - 26% of Teenage Girls Engage in ViolencePosted by Sweet Pennington on February 14th, 2021 Aggression and violence are not only for the boys anymore. According to Conflict management online and Mental Health Services Administration females are getting to be more linked to serious situations at college or work. These entanglements include, fighting, group against group fighting, and attacking another with intent to harm. So what's the answer? Well, in Online Dispute Resolution with Pamela S. Hyde of SAMHSA "We need to do a better job reaching girls at an increased risk and teaching them the way to resolve problems without resorting to violence." (AP January 15, 2010). Success in conflict management may be in essence to some three step process. Step one: Strengthen your self-awareness and self control. In conflict situations, the only one variable it is possible to absolutely control is yourself. Skill in conflict management is based, first of all, on realistic self study. In strengthening your self-control, you can answer the specific situation as an alternative to reacting. Step two is always to learn how to handle your own personal anger. 'Letting go' of your personal outrage will simply fuel the hearth in a conflict situation. Instead we should instead learn to control our emotions. This can be accomplished by understanding how the feelings developed, what's behind your anger, exactly what are your triggers or buttons. Once it is possible to determine your anger buttons you can control them instead of being manipulated or controlled by others. Thirdly, learn to confront anger in other people. Most people see, hear, and do what they really want to view, her, and do. In conflict situations, these positions and perceptions simply are more fixed and rigid. What helps is usually to abandon the need to be logical. State all those feelings. Actively hear your partner; this takes both time and energy to master. Try to avoid Business Mediation Sydney and be persistently reasonable. Anger and aggression might be managed in our teenagers, but they need support and instruction to make the necessary changes. Increasing their feelings of self worth, self-confidence, and self awareness is a great place to start.Like it? Share it!More by this author |