How to Approach your Crush at the Gym

Posted by Nick Niesen on October 27th, 2010

Every man would like to have a beautiful, sexy
girlfriend with a perfect body, with whom to be
very proud and start the envy of all his friends.
Let's face it: there is no man on the street that
will not look after an athletic body of a
beautiful, attractive lady. But for many of them
this remains only a dream because they don't know
where to meet this kind of woman and how to do it.
The best place to meet a woman with an athletic
body and in a very good shape is gym.

With the current attention being paid to healthy
lifestyles, fitness has become a very important
aspect of life today. That's why more and more
people decided to go to the gym. Let's say that
you are going to the gym for a long time and in
the last days a new interesting girl is passing
over here. She is very attractive and you would
really like to know her better but you don't know
how to approach her.

Approaching a woman successfully is only one of
the most stressful situation a man must face
because you don't know her, how she thinks, what
she likes, and if she is friendly or not. But,
if you make it carefully and know how to do it,
you may have success. You may use these tips to
approach your crush at the gym.

- first and the most important, if you want to be
flirting with, don't wear earphones, because it
will inhibit her approaching you

- find something that you both do at the gym so
you will be able to ask her advice about, or a
machine that you both use, to have what to talk
about

- you may talk to her about gym, sports, regimen,
workout

- best way to start a conversation with her is to
go to some machine near by her and ask if she is
using it or not and just start talking afterwards

- first talk to her as a friend to see if she
notice you

- use deodorant to make sure that you don't smell
bad, to not make a bad impression from the
beginning

- try to catch her eye every time you see her
and smile

- if she smiles you too you may approach her
because she is interested

- pay attention and if she is having trouble with
a machine or accessing an equipment you may offer
your help in order to start a conversation with
her

- you should try to get her phone number, but don'
t look too desperate

- also you may try to bring an iPod with you and
ask her if she knows a certain song

- if you decided to go near her and start a
conversation you must know from the beginning
what to say, so think first and then go

- accost her once she has just finished her set
and ask if you can work with her, to make
alternative exercises

- start to make accidental body contact

- when she is leaving you may say to her goodbye
and ask her when she comes again, then she will
have to talk to you next time she will see you

- you may ask her friendly for a cup of coffee
somewhere near the club, you don't have anything
to lose

- spot her at the gym

- another important aspect is that you have to
look very serious about your workout, so don't
stay and stare at girls; if she see that you are
just fooling around she will notice that you are
going to the gym just to date

Remember that you don't have necessarily to
become a personal trainer or to do yoga classes
to get a beautiful lady which you've seen at the
gym; you just have to take it carefully and know
how to approach her.

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