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Love at first sight seems to be just very strong physical grip at first sight. Hi, my name is Dr. Zana. They, I wanted to talk to you about a phenomenon that's extremely well familiar. We are to nearly anybody in the Western world and beyond, but you can have experienced that yourself. And even if you harbor 't, you've probably heard of it and know of it love at first sight, right?

It's been portrayed in the arts and literature for at least 3000 years. And today something like one in three people in the Western world say that they've experienced that.

So we know that.

They tend to report more passion, more sort of interest in their partner. And then those who don't recall having started with love it for sites. Thus, you know, it feels like it might be a fantastic point to have a relationship beginning this way. But We don't really much know about https://raymondkyaa191.tumblr.com/post/645502251973132288/anal-store what this is really love.

Like, are we talking about like actual love or is this just a very strong desire or lost, or just physical attraction, which then people, once they start dating and things are going well and, and it's, you know, seemed like it's gonna work out. Tend to reinterpret what happened at their first meeting.

They they're basically projecting their very strong feelings of love, uh, currently to what they were experiencing or feeling back when they met. So, uh, there is a new study that recently got published in the academic literature that looked at Lubbock for sight and how common it may be when people meet somebody.

And then how that might differ in terms of the quality of feeling that people are experiencing compared to actual love that people experience, uh, towards the partners that they're dating on a more, yeah, on a more regular basis. Now it's first of all, In order to determine whether love at first sight is actually love.

We have to decide what love is. And there is no one, like the definition of love it is there, there are many different ways to define love or another way to think about it. Is there different types of love that people can experience? Probably the most. Commonly used conceptualization of love is Robert Sternberg's triangle, triangular theory of love.

And according to the triangular theory of love it, it's just that basically there are three components that can make up love, passion, intimacy, and commitment.

Yeah. To be with somebody to be in a relationship and continue a relationship with someone. And so, depending on the amount of each of these three components that is present in our feelings for somebody, we can talk about different types of love.

So for example, the, the, the, the, the love that we all strive to achieve in our romantic relationships is the one that has very high levels of all three of passion, intimacy, and commitment, and that we call consummate love. All right then, but, but unfortunately we don't always have that in our intimate relationships, whether in the beginning or in the future, we end up in relationships which might have a little less of some of those components than other elements.

For instance, a very typical experience for a lot of people is that which we call companion at love. The love that has high intimacy, higher commitment. This is someone that you are feeling quite closely attached to quite dedicated, to staying in a connection with, but there's not a great deal of passion. And that quite often happens to romantic relationships over time after people have gone through, you know, a couple of years or maybe decades of, of being together and the passion has kind of subsided, but the closeness and devotion have stayed high.

Another kind of love is empty love, for example, that has high devotion. To be with somebody, but no passion, no familiarity. For example, uh, arranged marriages if they start. They are able to have this, this quality because these people don't really know each other. They can possibly have a lot of intimacy. They don't necessarily have a lot of passion.

They might have never been observed each other before seen each other without lots of, you know, fire, sparks, uh, occurring, but their families have. Decided that they should be together. They have committed to minding their family's wishes and they're very committed to staying together and building a family together and all that, even though there's no passionate intimacy, that doesn't mean that that passionate intimacy can't happen later.

But at the start, it's 's exactly what we call empty love. Okay. So these are some of the types. Again, you have nine different combinations. If you understand, these two are low or high, and this can be low and, and, and so forth, but. When we're thinking about what love at first sight could be. It's kind of unlikely that you would have high intimacy.

It's also sort of unlikely that you would have high commitment because those things usually take a long time to develop. They're not instantaneous. On the other hand, the passion component could be potentially instantaneous. You see someone and then the passion element is sexual appetite mixed in with. George someone attractive or which you find appealing mixed in with the halo effect that we add to attractive people.

The, the halo effect of positiveness we add to people we believe are hot. Like people, for no specific reason other than those people are hot. We think they're also fantastic people and intelligent and competent and pleasant and caring and caring and blah, blah, blah, all of these other items we have a tendency to assign to good-looking people, even if they overlook 't deserve it, just because they're good looking so.

That initial passion could potentially be a combination of these things. So maybe what we're seeing in love at first sight is this very high passion, relatively low intimacy and commitment, which is also the infatuation type of love that people experienced in the early stages of love. When they're just kind of getting to know each other when there's really high craving.

Four. So high passion, high sexual desire, high, high craving for closeness with this person, even though you don't necessarily understand each other very well. So that the closeness and the commitment to be with each other isn't in a super high level. So, alright. All this is, is an intro into, uh, this analysis that has been looking at.

What type of qualities does this experience of love at first sight have and how comparable is because of the love people report towards long-term spouses? So what this group of Dutch researchers did, they surveyed, um, almost 400 Dutch and German young people. Across three distinct studies in the initial two research participants were introduced with photographs of six to eight people they were assumed to envision meeting in a speed dating event.

And then they asked the response to what extent did they believed love at first sight and the three adore components towards each of these photos and to potential real people. And then those participants who were in longterm relationships were also asked to report how much love and, and over these three components, they believed for their existing spouse.

And then in research three, the investigators really organized. Three different real life dating occasions. One was a traditional speed dating event. One was a bar hopping occasion where a lot of those new people that were likely to meet each other, uh, when from bar to bar and invested , I don't know, like an hour or 20 minutes to something at, um, at the different, um, at the different bars, getting to know each other.

And then there was another kind of social gathering event where people kind of met new people over food and drinks and. Yeah, these, these were all single participants that got to meet other participants who were hopefully looking for, uh, partners of some kind interacted with them for a little while.

And then they answered the same questions about whether they experience love at first sight and also the, the different components of passion, intimacy, and commitment, and that they felt towards each of the people that they got to interact with personally. So across the three studies across the almost 400 participants that they had, um, asked both the online and the offline studies.

Love at first sight was reported 49 times by 32 different individuals that makes up about 8% of the total sample of participants because right. People could have, um, in each study participants. So, uh, photo photos of, uh, of, um, more than one person or interacted in real life with more than one person. So they could have potentially experienced love at first sight or thought they experience love it for side for more than one person.

So. They, um, about 8% of the participants experienced love at first sight. And remember for some of these people, all they did was they just saw a photo of someone and were asked to imagine meeting this person at a speed dating event. Whereas some of these other people actually met people in person and got to interact with them in person, but even so it's pretty remarkable that even at this very basic level of.

Knowledge or interaction with somebody else, even through just a photo. Seeing a photo of them is enough to trigger the sense of love at first sight in a small percentage of participants in this particular study. So some people definitely feel love it for side, for someone that they barely know. Yeah. An interesting side note and perhaps a sad side note is that of all of those people in the, in the real life interaction study that reported love at first sight for somebody that they interacted with, none of those was reciprocated.

So none of those people also