The 7 worst good results killersPosted by Holgersen Marcher on March 18th, 2021 The road to success isn't paved with gold ! The road is frequently strewn with obstacles that we place on it. Quite simply, our practices can prevent us from achieving our goals, realizing our ambitions and succeeding in life. To put all of the odds in your favour, here are the 7 worst habits that prevent results. Let's go ! Waiting for the "perfect" moment As they say, "you should never put off until tomorrow what you can do on the same day". Don't wait for the "right" time and energy to start an online business or a company, to learn a fresh language... or to take a training course! Time for you to start is now. Unless you get involved before "right" time comes along, you risk passing up on opportunities. "Hope makes you live, waiting enables you to die" So stop waiting and take the courage to achieve success and make your dreams come true. It's time to take the bull by the horns. Seeking for approval Successful entrepreneur Seeking the acceptance of others may be the worst habit that prevents accomplishment. While it's important to have the impression of others, you don't need to be always searching for others to acquire a pat on the back. Looking to get validation from those around you'll only slow you down. Seeking the acceptance of others adds an unneeded step to the decision-making process. ?Because one believes in oneself, one doesn't try to convince others. Because one is usually quite happy with oneself, one doesn't want others' approval. Because one accepts oneself, the whole world accepts him or her.? - Lao Tzu Complaining Complaining is a way to failure. It is one of many bad habits that must definitely be banned from your life, now. Spending your day complaining about things you can't change leads to nowhere. It's a negative attitude that could ruin your life, or at least damage your wellbeing. Any negative believing prevents you from existing happily and fulfilling your desires. In order to succeed, it is strongly advised to be "positive". Lacking self-confidence In accordance with personal development specialists, lack of self-confidence traps the person in a series of mental poison. It is a addiction that kills and buries our wishes. Self-doubt and fear of rejection will only fuel thoughts of uncertainty and indecision. To prepare a "recipe" that leads to success, self-confidence is probably the most important points not to miss! Otherwise, it is obvious that you'll have little chance of success. Wanting to be perfect Ladies and gentlemen, nobody is perfect! The constant seek out perfection can only slow you along and put obstacles in the journey to success. Most of us make mistakes and these are a fundamental element of our learning process. We learn from our mistakes every day, which can only make us stronger and more experienced. To achieve your goals, it is important to set SMART goals: - S : Specific - M : Measurable - A : Attainable - R : Relevant - T : Time-based Read more about SMART goals on our devoted article here Never asking questions If you think you understand it all, we unfortunately have some bad news for you personally: you are very much mistaken. To experience your goals, it is very important get professional advice and have questions. When you want to start out an online business for instance, it is almost impossible to know everything. To avoid unpleasant surprises, change to the specialists and have them all the questions which come to mind. Their answers will surely be very useful. And don't forget to continually improve your knowledge. Successful people always read books, take training courses, attend conferences, etc. Knowledge is a rare "commodity" that can help you dream bigger. Blaming others for your mistakes Mistakes are part of our daily life and learning process. It is important is to study from them. Never blame others for his or her mistakes! This bad habit continually results in failure. Banish it from your own life ! Mistakes should always be observed as a source of knowledge and learning. "You figure out how to walk by falling. Quit complaining, take responsibility for your actions and study from what mistakes teach you !Like it? Share it! More by this author |