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Love at first sight seems to be just very strong physical grip at first sight. Hello, my name is Dr. Zana. They, I wished to speak with you about a happening that is extremely well recognizable. We're to nearly anyone in the Western world and outside, but you may have experienced that yourself. And even if you harbor 't, you've probably heard of it and know of it love at first sight, right?

That's something that has been a thing for a very long time. It's been portrayed in the arts and literature for at least 3000 years. And today something like one in three people in the Western world say that they've opowiadania masturbacja experienced that.

And then those who don't remember having started with love it for websites. So, you know, it feels like it may be a good thing to have a connection start this manner. However, We don't really much know about what this is really love.

So, uh, there is a new study that recently got published in the academic literature that looked at Lubbock for sight and how common it may be when people meet somebody.

And then how that might differ in terms of the quality of feeling that people are experiencing compared to actual love that people experience, uh, towards the partners that they're dating on a more, yeah, on a more regular basis. Now it's first of all, In order to determine whether love at first sight is actually love.

Probably the most.

And according to the triangular theory of love it, it's just that basically there are three components that can make up love, passion, intimacy, and commitment.

Yeah. And so, depending on the amount of each of these three components that is present in our feelings for somebody, we can talk about different types of love.

So for example, the, the, the, the, the love that we all strive to achieve in our romantic relationships is the one that has very high levels of all three of passion, intimacy, and commitment, and that we call consummate love. All right then, but, but unfortunately we don't always have that in our intimate relationships, whether in the start or in the future, we end up in relationships that may have a bit less of some of those components than other elements.

For example, a very common experience for a lot of people is that which we call companion at love. The love that has high closeness, high dedication. So this really is someone that you are feeling quite closely attached to very committed, to staying in a relationship with, but there's not a great deal of passion. And that very often happens to romantic relationships over the years after people have gone through, you know, a couple of years or possibly decades of, of being together and the fire has kind of subsided, but the intimacy and commitment have remained high.

Another type of love is empty love, for example, which has high devotion. To be with somebody, but no passion, no intimacy. For instance, uh, arranged marriages when they start. They can have this, this caliber because these people don't really know each other. They can possibly have a lot of intimacy. They don't necessarily have a lot of passion.

They may have never been observed each other before seen each other without a lot of, you know, passion, sparks, uh, happening, but their families have. Decided they ought to be together. They've committed to obeying their loved ones 's wishes and they're very committed to staying together and constructing a family together and all that, though there's no enthusiastic intimacy, which doesn't mean that that passionate intimacy can't happen later.

But at the start, it's 's exactly what we call empty adore. Okay. These are some of the types. Again, you have nine unique combinations. If you understand, these two are high or low, and this is low and, and, and so forth, but. If we're thinking about what love at first sight could be. It's kind of unlikely that you would have high intimacy.

It's also kind of unlikely that you would have high devotion because those items usually take a very long time to develop. They're not instantaneous. However, the passion component could be potentially instantaneous. You see someone and then the fire element is sexual desire mixed in with. George someone appealing or which you find appealing mixed in with all the halo effect that we add to appealing people.

The, the halo effect of positiveness that we add to people that we think are hot. Like people, for no particular reason other than these people are sexy. We think they're also good people and smart and competent and pleasant and caring and compassionate and blah, blah, blah, all these other things we have a tendency to assign to fine people, even if they don't deserve it, just because they're good looking so.

That initial passion could potentially be a combination of these things. So maybe what we're seeing in love at first sight is this very high passion, relatively low intimacy and commitment, which is also the infatuation type of love that people experienced in the early stages of love. When they're just kind of getting to know each other when there's really high craving.

Four. So high passion, high sexual desire, high, high craving for closeness with this person, even though you don't necessarily understand each other really well. So that the intimacy and the commitment to be with each other isn't in a super high level. So, alright. All of this is, is an intro into, uh, this study that has been looking at.

What type of qualities does this experience of love at first sight possess and how comparable is because of the love people report towards long-term partners? What this group of Dutch researchers , they surveyed, um, nearly 400 Dutch and German young people. Across three distinct studies in the initial two studies participants were introduced with photos of six to nine people they were supposed to envision meeting at a speed dating event.

And then they asked the answer to exactly what extent did they felt love at first sight and the three love components towards each of these photos and to potential real people. And those participants that were in longterm relationships were also requested to report how much love and, and across these three elements, they believed for their existing spouse.

And then in research three, the researchers really organized. Three different real life dating occasions. One was a traditional speed dating event. One was a bar hopping occasion where a bunch of those new people that were going to meet each other, uh, when from bar to bar and spentI don't know, like an hour or 20 minutes to something at, um, at the different, um, at the different bars, getting to know each other.

And then there was another kind of social gathering event where people kind of met new people over food and drinks and. Yeah, these, these were all single participants that got to meet other participants who were hopefully looking for, uh, partners of some kind interacted with them for a little while.

And then they answered the same questions about whether they experience love at first sight and also the, the different components of passion, intimacy, and commitment, and that they felt towards each of the people that they got to interact with personally. So across the three studies across the almost 400 participants that they had, um, asked both the online and the offline studies.

Love at first sight was reported 49 times by 32 different individuals that makes up about 8% of the total sample of participants because right. People could have, um, in each study participants. So, uh, photo photos of, uh, of, um, more than one person or interacted in real life with more than one person. So they could have potentially experienced love at first sight or thought they experience love it for side for more than one person.

So. They, um, about 8% of the participants experienced love at first sight. And remember for some of these people, all they did was they just saw a photo of someone and were asked to imagine meeting this person at a speed dating event. Whereas some of these other people actually met people in person and got to interact with them in person, but even so it's pretty remarkable that even at this very basic level of.

Knowledge or interaction with somebody else, even through just a photo. Seeing a photo of them is enough to trigger the sense of love at first sight in a small percentage of participants in this particular study. So some people definitely feel love it for side, for someone that they barely know. Yeah. An interesting side note and perhaps a sad side note is that of all of those people in the, in the real life interaction study that reported love at first sight for somebody that they interacted with, none of those was reciprocated.

So none of those people also said that they had experienced love at first sight for the person who experienced that for them. So, um, no crazy sparks on both sides mutually, uh, were, were, uh, started in this particular study, but you know, who knows? Um, that obviously happens sometimes in, in a mutual sort of way, just not in this way, particular study.

Okay. But so the, the key question was. Is there evidence that love for sight has the qualities of love in the answer in this study was no, it did not. The amount of passion, intimacy, and commitment. And that was reported for the people that the participants said. I experienced love at first sight. They all hovered around the neutral, the point of the scale.

So the scale was from, I did not experience this at all to experience this very strongly to somewhere like, um, I don't know. I kind of feel neutral about this person and in all cases, The

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