Fire Up Your Relationship - Ten Ways to Build a Loving and Lasting Union

Posted by Miisoo Doll on April 27th, 2021

Relationship challenges can make you bitter or better.You can choose ro practice new relationship-enhancing behaviors. Here are ten SECRETS for lasting and loving unions:

1. GIRLS BEGIN DATING BY AGE 7:

Girls are already dating in their minds by age 7 and they are hooked on Disney's Fairy robotic sex doll. Look around at all the Princess dolls and toys. But even Barbie and Ken had troubles to deal with. {Barbie and ken broke up and Mattel had this big break up story a few years back). Although there have been some improvements in fairy tale endings with movies like Shrek girls are still falling in love with the glitz and Happily Ever After Stuff. What they needs a REALITY TALE.

2. WRITE YOUR OWN REALITY TALE:

Although divorced people may fill sad, they have a chance to celebrate a new beginning. If they have learned from their experience they can work toward a new loving and lasting relationship. Although 95 percent of Americans say they want love that lasts, most do not know how to make it happen.

3. WAKE UP WITHOUT MAKE-UP:

Real people meet real people. Fakes meet fakes.

4. SEX SIZZLES IN COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS:

Research shows that sex is better in committed relationships. Do not fall for that glam couple stuff. The Hot couples may surprise you!

5. MODERN REALITY TALES:

Lessons can be learned from divorce about what it takes to move on and learn how to make love last. Rather than view yourself is a failure, learn to be better instead of bitter.

6. THE GRASS IS GREENER GENE:

We all seem to have some form of this gene that prevents us from seeing the stars in our own backyard.

7. CONTROLLED BURNS:

To sustain the spell of love we need to handle differences with controlled burns so resentments do not get our of control. It is important to learn to dialogue with conflicts.

8.CELEBRATE VALENTINES EVERY DAY:

Cupid's spell happens in moments all year long.............One arrow does not last forever. You need to keep filling the quiver and sending arrows flying.

9.THINK OUT OF THE BOX:

Create ways to add romance to your relationship and connect with your partner; not just the usual out to dinner and movie night. For example, instead of a box of chocolates, give pieces of paper that have gifts that your partner loves like a massage or a day out to their favorite museum, etc.....Share random acts of kindness every day.

10.AVOID THE ENDORPHIN HANGOVER:

Chemical attraction might be great in bed but when the chemicals calm down and your head is clear you may be left with a partner you are not compatible with outside of the bedroom.

Dr.Linda Miles , is a highly regarded psychotherapist with over 30 years experience. Her book The New Marriage,Transcending the Happily Ever After Myth was a finalist for the Foreward Book of the Year Award. She has written many articles for professionals and published in national magazines such as Parents and Entrepreneur.