What to Expect When You're Expecting Relationships

Posted by Naveed on September 11th, 2021

I\'m sure most of us can relate to the frustration we feel when we\'re in a relationship, but at the same time, don\'t want to be in one. I have many people tell me they are \"tired of being lonely\", but at the same time they aren\'t ready for a relationship. It\'s so ironic because you can\'t have one without the other. You can choose to be alone, or you can choose to find someone who will be with you \"alone\".

 

You have no control over who is interested in you and who isn\'t, but there are things that you do have control over. If someone shows interest in you then that means that that person wants something from you or your life. So what exactly do they want? They want companionship? They want sex? A friend? Money? Attention? What ever it is. I am finding love is like a game where there are two end results. One is you get hurt, and the other is you win. The thing about this game is that it\'s not really a game at all. It\'s real life, and it can be scary and exciting at the same time.

I\'ve been in many relationships, and I\'ve had my heart broken more times than I can count on both hands. It hurts every time you lose someone who means something to you, but then again that person wasn\'t really yours to begin with right? If that person was meant for us then we would have no problems keeping them around right? Well sometimes they\'re not meant for us but we don\'t realize it because we\'re too busy having fun with them which makes their absence even harder to take when they leave us behind.

Relationships aren\'t always bad though because sometimes people do stick around and care about us even after they find out our flaws or past mistakes we made in life. Relationships are scary because of the potential to be hurt. It\'s almost like playing with fire, but you\'re the one who put yourself in that situation to begin with.

I am very excited about the future, and I have a lot of hopes for my relationships even though they haven\'t worked out so far. I am so happy that I have found some really amazing people who will be there for me no matter what happens between us. People can be so great when it comes to being supportive of each other, but they can also be terrible when it comes to playing games or backstabbing someone else who is trying their best not to let anyone down ever again. This isn\'t just about relationships either; this applies to life in general. You cannot control other people\'s actions or opinions on you unless you force them into doing something they don\'t want to do by threatening them with violence or some sort of punishment if they don\'t comply with your demands.

I have been in my fair share of relationships, and I have had a lot of things happen to me in my life so far. I\'m not going to sit here and tell you that it\'s been a good time for me either. I\'ve lost people who meant a lot to me, and some relationships that were supposed to last forever have ended just as quickly as they started. To this day I am still in one relationship though, and it is the best thing that has happened in my life so far! It\'s a long distance relationship, but we make the most out of every single thing we do together because we know our time with each other is limited. So if you ever get into a bad relationship or you feel like someone has treated you wrong then don\'t let them take away your happiness from you! It\'s hard sometimes but stay strong because there are always better things ahead for everyone!

I hope this post helped at least one person out there today who might be going through something similar or entirely different from what I wrote about here today! If anyone needs advice on how to handle their current situation then send me an email at skylar@askdesperateandstarvingstudents.

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