Tips for Giving and Erotic Massage

Posted by Lana Stewart on November 10th, 2021

In the following article we look at some great tips for giving and receiving erotic massage with your partner. Many people find that erotic massage is not only a relaxing exercise but is also a great way to build an emotional connection with your partner. The following steps we feel are important to prepare for your massage:

Setting the scene – We believe this is one of the single most important aspects of your erotic massage session. Here, both dim lighting and perhaps even some artificial light in the form of candles can really help the erotic feel. Then perhaps the icing on the cake, some aromatherapy candles to create that real ambient and sensual feeling. There are lots of options here, but scents like lavender and vanilla can often prove popular in this environment. Then there’s the music! Many people will feel that some soft soothing sexy music can really enhance the senses during a massage.

The Massage Table – Now some people might feel more comfortable having their massage on a table, but equally this might not be great for two people as the massage progresses. Therefore, for many of us, the bed is often used when carrying out this type of massage at home. If this is the case, then you will want to ensure that everything is sparkling clean, and perhaps some nice warm feeling towels can be used.

Clearing out of distractions – Another key element in the preparation of the massage is clearing out any distractions in the room. This will include things like the television, making sure that all electronic devices are switched off, and generally ensuring that you have created a peaceful feeling space. Of course, making sure that curtains and doors are closed too.

Meditation – For those that want to take the true tantra approach to things, then doing some brief meditation can also be the perfect way to clear the mind before the massage treatment. This can be a combination of both deep breathing and visualization (to envisage what is about to unfold during your erotic massage). Many report that this really is a good way to switch off before your erotic massage session.

Here we have listed just a few of the great ways you can prepare for an amazing erotic massage experience. After having your massage, you should feel completely relaxing and exhilarated at the same time, as well as building an even more special bond with your significant other in the process.