Some Marriages Are Never Made In Heaven

Posted by Himanshu Goyal on April 18th, 2023

Some marriages last forever while others don't even last for a year. 'Marriages are made in heaven' is a very popular quote. We all know that there are no perfect relationships in the world, and every relationship has its ups and downs. You will never find a man and woman matching perfectly. It is all about putting effort into each other to make the relationship work. But, despite putting in a lot of effort, some relationships do not work out.

A bad marriage often ends in a bad way. Divorces are never easy. It is the final ugly step of marriage. There are a lot of relationships that can be rebuilt but once there is way too much damage, then it acts as a sign to end that marriage.

Some marriages are never made in heaven - they end up in divorce. But, divorce is not as easy as any normal breakup. When you plan to spend your entire life with a person and things do not go as planned, it often leads to mental and emotional breakdowns. A divorce not only includes the emotional decision of leaving your partner, but it also comes along with a lot of important decisions to make for your upcoming journey.

Common signs that you need to consider divorce

Given below are some of the common signs that show silent separation between couples. These signs help you realize that your relationship is not going to work anymore and it will be better if you consider a divorce. 

There is no argument between you and your partner

Arguments are part of a healthy and happy marriage. If you and your partner have stopped arguing, then there might be chances that there is no emotional bonding left in your relationship. It is said that avoidance and no arguments might be detrimental to a relationship.

Experts state that if you are not affected by your partner's actions anymore, then you are not interested in continuing the relationship. Having fights with your partner is necessary to maintain a happy marriage. Major issues often come up in a marriage when there are no fights between the couple. 

They are not even your friend anymore

A relationship is very successful if you and your partner are best friends before being husband and wife. No matter what good or bad happens in a day, your partner is the first person with whom you share all the day-to-day details.

But, if you feel that somewhere that bond of friendship is no more between you and your spouse, then you will eventually realize that your marriage has come to an end. You will suddenly start feeling disconnected from your partner. Such situations often lead to a feeling of loneliness which ends up weakening a marriage. 

There is no trust and respect left in the relationship

Some mistakes cannot be forgiven in a relationship such as engaging in infidelity, cheating, abuse, domestic violence, etc. If your partner committed something like that then your marriage will never be like before. Your bond will eventually get weaker with time which will finally lead to a divorce.

But, mistakes are not always the reason for a broken marriage. A marital relationship might also come to an end due to various past issues such as bad financial management, drug addiction, and many more. If your partner keeps on triggering your emotions by mentioning past incidents, then it acts as a big red flag. Nobody has the right to break your mental peace, and getting separated from such a partner is always the right choice. 

You have put enough effort to rebuild your bond

A relationship needs effort from both partners to make it work. If you are the only one putting effort into the relationship then it is high time for you to realize that this marriage is not going to work anymore.

No matter how much you are in love with that person, if they do not value you and are least interested in you, then you can already consider it as an emotional divorce. Once a relationship goes through an emotional divorce, it is a sign that you can proceed with the legal divorce procedure.

Conclusion

Ending a marriage is never an easy task. But, if you feel that your relationship cannot be fixed anyway then it is better to opt for a divorce and move on in your life. There is no point in continuing a toxic marriage. 

But, while opting for a divorce you must remember that divorce comes with a lot of things involved in it such as child custody, finance division, etc. Therefore, you must connect with a good private detective in India to proceed forward with your divorce. You must also consider a post-matrimonial investigation before making any final decision as it will help you to analyze all the things that led to a broken marriage.