How to Text a Girl - 5 Secret

Posted by joyspriscilla on July 28th, 2016

A lot of guys will focus only on one girl and at the same time drive her away, why is this? Imagine you are fishing, and only have one "rod" in the water. The Language Of Lust Review You will inherently pay too much attention to the line and jump all over it the second it jiggles. Now imagine you have ten rods in the water, one jiggles but you don't give it the same level of attention because two others are showing interest at the same time. The more fish you have curious about your bait the higher the chances you are going to catch one, not only because of a numbers game but simply because you physically can't pay too much attention to only one. This is a type of positive self-sabotage to keep your attention divided. This is one of the stranger things about relationships and is exactly why "when it rains, it pours" is a very true adage.

Push and pull I have heard in the PUA world a few times but I have never heard a good explanation as to why it works and I have never heard it applied to how to text a girl. Let me explain how to move this useful tool so there is no doubt as to how to text a girl, perfectly. I liken push and pull to self-stimulation (you get what I mean, right?) as you "work" on yourself, you are creating arousal. If you only "pulled" or only "pushed" there would be no "erecting" attraction and certainly no release. In the texting world it might look like this: You: Hey cutie, did you get that job yet? (pull) Her: Don't know yet kinda worried You: Well, if you weren't so under qualified (push) Her: Hey! What's that supposed to mean!? You: I was talking about us (second push) Her: Whatever, you wish you could date me! €http://www.thelanguageoflustbookreviews.com/

You: Sigh, you are right, I am certainly not in your league (pull) Her: Gawd! I know you... so full of yourself You: Sure am, and that's why you have the hots for me (push) Her: hahaha, not... You: Okay sweetie, got to run, good luck on the job and let me know if you get it (pull) Her: Thanks! Take care... We have just stimulated the situation and because there was no release we have built up the interest for the second interaction, nicely done. (Let me add something, just read another "textpert's" advice on how to text women. To my lack of surprise, it was relatively rude and about 80% push. This is the most common PUA mistake, they rarely incorporate enough pull and put themselves at risk of being labeled a jerk, or only create attraction based on temporary negative tension)