Three Surefire Signs that Your Ex Wants You Back

Posted by georginabelikov on August 20th, 2010

After a break up, most people would be devastated. There would be a lot of what ifs, questions that seem to be unanswerable. These what ifs would leave you frustrated most of the time, especially when you are still in constant contact with your ex. You will be left wondering if you ex is still into you. It is quite hard to answer this because you don't know if you are just assuming, or he still loves you. To help you with this dilemma, here are three signs that will show that your ex still has feelings for you.

Your ex wants to remain as friends. Most couples after a break up would usually not speak with each other for quite some time. This is indeed normal for getting over something that is devastating takes a process. It  may take a long time or a short time, depending on how you deal with the break up. However, if your ex wants remain friends with and would call you immediately after your break up, then maybe he/she still wants to have your attention, and would want to spend time with you just like what you did when you were still together. If she/he's not a jerk, then this is a good thing. But if the two of you went your separate ways because of his/her jerky behavior, this is quite questionable.
Your ex maintains the same manner of communication with you. If your ex still calls you, sends you text messages, emails you a couple of times a day, then definitely, he/she still wants you back. He/she still wants the same time that was spent with you before, and this is a total indication of his/her desire to be with you again.
Your ex talks about what happened during your break up, and talks about a future with you included in it. If things were not left clear between you, then he/she wants to clear it up, so as to make sure that both of you really understood what happened. When you both do, then he/she would make sure that the situation would never happen again. Talking about a future with you is indeed a give away of how she/he feels about you. Not only does your ex talk about the future but he/she makes certain that it will be better than what you have.

Knowing these three signs that your ex is still into you, it will no longer take a lot of sweat before you realize what's going on. However, knowing these would not just be enough for you to make a decision. A complete assessment of what happened, and a careful deliberance of what might happen should always be considered. However, nothing still beats the adage which says, "Follow your heart."

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