What Does Going Steady Mean From A Woman's Perspective

Posted by newlovetimes on October 12th, 2016

Love can get a little tricky at times. If you go too fast too soon, you might blow it all. For a woman, it is all about taking things one step at a time. When you love someone, you want to be with them, right? It’s not a complicated affair at all. Every woman out there wants to give her relationship a strong foundation and going steady is a great way to start building that foundation. Here is a view on what going steady means for a woman  

1. Being exclusive

The first step is to make sure that you are not meeting other people like you used to during your casual dating days. It is all about acknowledging each other’s presence and should be done effortlessly. Your girl is not supposed to ask you to stop meeting other women. It is a decision that you should take if you want to be with her in the long run.

2. You start hanging out more often

This is phase when you are getting to know the person, or you have grown to become extremely comfortable with each other. It should be a natural progression of your relationship and not based on expectations. A woman expects you to want to hang out with her, have new and shared experiences, impromptu meetings, formal dinner dates, the works.

3. Meeting each other’s friends and family

Now that you both know each other well it’s time you got introduced to her inner circle and vice versa. You will have slowing start building our groups of your friends, her friends and ‘our friends’. If she asks you to accompany her to a family dinner, then she is certainly upping the ante and you should not be flippant about it. This is a crucial step, as she is most likely going to ask them if they like you and if you have their approval, so you should definitely be taking your ‘A Game’ to make a good impression.

4. More love!

You keep spending more time with each other and get to know about all those small things that she does. You won’t even realize but soon you would start liking the songs she listens to or the books she reads. The both of you will start sharing your whole life together. Shared experiences will slowly create a more encompassing love.

5. Going on vacations together

You two will probably start off by going on random trips together and will love the idea of escaping your mundane world. This is great as it will give you an opportunity to discover facets of each other in a whole different way. The both of you would see it all – the beaches and the mountains, and will strengthen the bond of love.

6.  Your place is her place

As of now, she is spending more time at your place than hers. Your wardrobe has more of her clothes than you own because she had spent countless nights at your place. She knows each and everything about your life and can even read your silence by now. Your friends and family are already in love with her and would like the two of you to settle down already!

7. You both are integral to each other’s lives  

One day, when wake up next to her, you will realize that you can’t live without her. You have taken the most amazing journey with her and can’t wait to share each and every passing moment of your life with her. You are an integral part of her life now physically and emotionally just as she is part of yours.

You are now officially going steady.  Do what it takes to make it work and before you know you will be on the path to building a relationship that may last you a lifetime.

We guess by all the  above points you got thegoing steady.