How to save a Relationship:

Posted by nabeelshaukat on August 21st, 2010

Five Things You Can Do to Save A Relationship:

Has your relationship loss its spark? Do you feel stuck in a routine where you are both bored with each other? The flames of a relationship fade in time, but there is something that can be done to re-ignite the flames to burn brightly again.

Rediscover vitality, a freshness, an excitement in your relationship!

Here are 5 things you can do.

1.  Get Away for Some Togetherness Time:

If you are unable to take a vacation, consider a weekend couple resort, where you can be pampered with a massage and other comforts to relax the two of you. Getting away from the demands of caring for children and financial obligations is necessary to save a relationship that's tinkering toward dissolving. Everyone needs a break from the demands of life. Make an effort to get away for some togetherness time, to rekindle those feelings you once passionately shared, before it?s too late.

2. Do Something to Surprise that Breaks the Routine:

When it comes down to relationships, routines can be detrimental. Too much predictability makes the relationship dull. Doing things the same day in and day out can cause dissatisfaction with the relationship. It may lead to one of you using your dissatisfaction with the relationship as an excuse to have an affair. To prevent this from happening, do something that not expected from you, such as, calling to express sentiments of love. Or surprise them by just hanging out with them and doing fun things.

3. Bring Back Good Times:

Go back to places where you shared good times together to stir up, recapture, and rekindle those old feelings. You may discover that the feelings you thought no longer existed between the two of you just needed to be sparked again.

4. Have a Date:

Plan something romantic, like a picnic in the park, a walk along the beach at sunset, a candlelight dinner, or watching movies together. The simple act of being together on a date can rejuvenate and energize a relationship that needs a jolt of energy to be revived.

5. Do Something Together that's Out of Your Comfort Zone:

You may not consider yourself the adventurous type. It doesn't have to be   something dangerous. An adventure could be going down a waterslide, or a ride in a ferries wheel at an amusement park, or participating together in a drive across the country to check out the activities of different places. These types of adventures will get your adrenaline flowing. It gives you a chance to experience something together that's outside of the ordinary things, which define your relationship.

It's important to discover ways to preserve what you have together. There doesn't have to be time consuming nor costly methods to it. All you need is to be committed to each other. These 5 suggestions are meant to get you started with things you can do to save a relationship.