ASA girls 12U Softball Rule

Here is situation: Runner on 3rd with 2 out and batter walks, continues to second with no throw. and rounds the bag. Pitcher now has the ball in the circle. Runner stands between bases trying to draw throw. Girl at 3rd leaves base and goes back, also trying to draw throw. In game one, umpires let that go, saying it is not a rule violation. Game two with a different set of umpires, they say that if the girl at second did not commit, she is out. These are all veteran ASA umpires. Who is correct?