Smart Couples Choose Divorce Mediator In Divorce Cases

Posted by NY Divorce Mediators on May 30th, 2017

A divorce is the end of a journey and the beginning of another one. It is important that the transition is executed smoothly with as little trauma and disappointment as possible. Regardless of the decision, or the reasons for a divorce, separation does leave an impact. The impact could be on one of the parties, or both, or the kids or family. After the decision to head separately has been made, it is necessary that resentment and other negativity are kept low to keep the transition smooth. Couples who are practical in their decisions choose the services of divorce mediators to hammer out agreements and keep the mud out. Here are compelling reasons to hire a professional mediator.

Division of property

As couples split so does the property. Getting an amicable settlement is crucial for all. A mediator would be able to help the estranged couple identify the areas of agreement. Resolving some issues will actually help to look at other issues positively. This can help to keep the bitterness out. Property can be divided in a manner so as to support the spouse without having to put the other in a distinct disadvantage.

Visitation rights and child support

Children are never a party to the divorce, and should not ideally be robbed of their emotional connect with both the spouses. The visitation rights can be resolved amicably without having to look at jurisprudence. The days, timings and frequency can be agreed upon in a legally binding manner. NY Divorce Mediators who are aware of the existing laws of visitation will be better equipped to come with solutions that are legally enforceable should one of the parties choose to violate the terms of the agreement.

Hiring a mediator with mutual consent

It is important that both the parties hire the mediator with mutual consent. One reluctant partner can turn the mediation exercise futile. Skilled mediators would be able to convince both the parties to agree to proposals mutually. However, in the event of one of the parties choosing to remain indifferent, the proposals would be of little or no value. This could arise as it leaves the reluctant spouse to label the mediation biased. Finding common ground on the issue of choosing the right mediator will help both the parties find a better way out of issues.

Documented agreements to avoid ambiguity

The services of professional mediators come with the services of an entire team of professionals. This includes documentation that spares a lot of trouble to the couples at any point in the future. A party who chooses to not honor any or all of the agreed clauses can be hauled to court for enforcement. This is primarily because of the legally binding and enforceable agreements spelt out in documentation prepared unambiguously.

Couples, who have decided that the best way forward is alone, choose to take the path of mediated settlements for smoother journeys. This prevents them from carrying excess emotional baggage and negativity, not to mention unfair treatment, during the journey forward.