Making Working girls Legal: It is 1 of life's cruellest jokes that guys reach th
Posted by london on September 16th, 2017
It is 1 of life's cruellest jokes that guys reach their sexual peak at eighteen, whilst girls generally take till aged thirty or later to reach theirs. This discrepancy seems like a formula for heterosexual frustration until you understand that sexual peak has nothing at all to do with how good a lover you are. That capacity will come with experience and caring - and that increases with age, says Dr. Saul H. Rosenthal, medical director of the Sexual Therapy Clinic of San Antonia and author of Sex Over Forty.
Cultivating skills calls for an intermingling of the physical, emotional and intellectual. You have to be aware of what is going on in your body and your partner's body, You need to adapt to these changes with a willing and enthusiastic use of your imagination and a spirit of innovation. At the pinnacle of sexuality, a 20-year- old guy produces about a teaspoon of semen a day, he can get aroused just thinking about intercourse, and aroused again only minutes after orgasm, thanks to his higher level of testosterone. ten years later, the level has started a gradual drop, by age forty many men need much more direct stimulation during foreplay to experience erection. At 50, semen manufacturing may be significantly less than half of what it was at twenty and at sixty some men normally ejaculate only 1 out of every two or three times they have intercourse. After 70, the refractory period - the time it normally takes to achieve an erection again after climaxing - lengthens. What took one to two minutes at seventeen takes one or two days by 70.
Among ladies, production of the female sex hormone, oestrogen, reaches its peak at age thirty, bringing with it fast vaginal lubrication, increased desire and more intense orgasms. At 40, a woman is still capable of conceiving, but a decade later, she will almost certainly be approaching or have gone through menopause, during which hormone levels drop drastically.
Menopause creates physical changes in the vagina, including dryness and fragility, but frequent sexual intercourse apparently ameliorates this condition. Relieved of worry about being pregnant, many women find sex much more pleasurable. At 60, a woman's orgasms may be far more frequent than earlier in life, says Dr. Helen Singer Kaplan, director of the Human Sexuality Program at The New York Hospital-Cornell Medical Centre, because female orgasm is, in part, "a learning process." The male and female physiological changes that occur with age provide a fertile ground for a more leisurely enjoyment of sex, When people are young, sex tends to be urgent and explosive. It is concerned mostly with physical pleasure and, in many instances, the conception of kids. This is biological and instinctive - and wonderfully interesting. But sex is not just a matter of athletics and production. With age sexual intercourse develops into this psychological and communicative as well as physical act and research by Dr. William H. Masters and Virginia Johnson of the Masters Johnson Institute in St. Louis suggest that sexual enjoyment in middle age is the best barometer of lifelong pleasure. Sex is a natural function and Just because we age doesn't mean we stop functioning effectively. 70 percent of people in their 70s engage in sex often and today's emphasis on fitness and health may exaggerate our expectations of future sex.
