Freshen Up Your Marriage WIth These 9 Tips

Posted by Lesley Haverford on September 26th, 2017

A long-term relationship can be exhausting and monotone from time to time. If you are in a relationship like that, it is a good time to modify the boring routine that both of you created in the past few years. Don’t blame yourself or your partner for the current situation. It is healthier to stop, sit down and talk. If the talking can’t change anything, go ahead and read the rest of this article to see what can be done in order to liven up your long-term partnership.

Hug each other

Sharing long hugs can help your relationship. Embrace your significant other and hug them for at least 20 seconds. This extended intimacy will increase levels of oxytocin, commonly referred as „love hormone“. This neurotransmitter will help you to relax by your loved one and continue with endearment. Make sure to hug on daily basis and you’ll feel much closer to your partner in no time.

Clean the bedroom

The next step toward better marriage is improving your sex life. Make sure all photos of your children, in-laws and other members of the family are removed from the bedroom. That area should be cleaned from all distractions and just a glance at the face of your mother in-law can kill the magic. Another item you don’t really need in the bedroom is TV or computer. Make your sleeping area distraction-free if you want to improve your relationship.

Be childish once again

Remember your romantic days in high school. Try doing the same things once again. Play silly games with your partner and feel free to write them kinky notes on regular basis. This way of communication will boost your imagination and you’ll feel fresh and young again. Once a week, you may text your loved one with a private message, or write it down and hide in their wallet. The moment of surprise will be priceless and love for each other will grow instantly.

Be clear about your needs

Good and clear communication is a foundation of every successful relationship. Don’t be afraid to ask for a massage if that’s what you want. If you don’t express your feelings and wishes, you can easily find yourself unsatisfied and remote from your partner. Talk to each other about your fantasies and give your best to fulfill them. That way, you’ll advance to another level and your relationship will become healthier and stronger.

Kill the routine

Make sure to kill the routine before it kills your marriage. Long-term relationships can be stuck in routine which can affect sex life as well. You should be predictable when it comes to your job or responsibilities around kids, but you shouldn’t be like that in the bed. Try to be mysterious before the dinner by saying your loved one to be prepared for a surprise that will occur later. The sole anticipation will get them excited and you’ll feel plenty good vibes for the rest of the night.

Get out of the house

After many years of marriage, the two of you probably forgot to enjoy. Because of that, you should schedule a date once a month. Hire a babysitter and go to your favorite restaurant, and visit a night club later on. If you are fierce and open for new experiences, you may try with swinger club or one of the available Australian brothels. This detour can really do miracles for your sex life and your relationship may get much stronger.

Explore tantric sex

One of the best things you can do to improve your marriage is to try tantric sex. This ancient Hindu practice is not goal oriented. It is a mixture of foreplay, meditation, and massage, and it will help you to reconnect with your partner. Postponement of orgasm can be hard if you’re beginner, but give your best to withstand as much as you can. If executed properly, tantric sex can lead to powerful orgasms, but you’ll need to show some patience first.

Stop with fighting

You should be aware that everything that happens out of bedroom will most certainly affect things that happen in there. In case you caught an argument during the day, make sure to talk about it before hitting the sack. You should never fall asleep with bad thoughts on your mind. If you see that conversation can go toward an argument, try to make a joke on your behalf or kiss your loved one. That way, you will avoid entering the same fight once again.

Take care of yourself

In order to have a healthy and long relationship, it is crucial to take care of yourself first. Don’t hesitate to indulge yourself with a good movie or walk by the river. You shouldn't spend every minute of your life with your partner and family since you’ll get bored by them, and vice versa. Leave enough time for exercising or a casual drink with your old friends.

Conclusion

Reviving a marriage don’t have to be a nightmare, and you probably don’t need to see a couple counselor as well. Your relationship is in your hands and in hands of your spouse. Try to remember how you fell in love, and talk about first few years of your relationship. Those sweet stories will help you to find what you lost during the years. Keep up with a positive attitude and honest communication and you’ll see improvement in no time.