KEY TO A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IN A MARRIAGE

Posted by metali verma on October 13th, 2017

Not only all of us grow up with the fairy tale syndrome which always has a prince charming but even our favourite movies we watch all cozy in that illusion cocoon ends on a happy note "they live happily ever after". Marriage symbolizes amalgamation of two hearts and souls or rather I should say an amalgamation of responsibilities! Really? Does it?

Will you marry my needs honey? Yes darling. And there he flings a ring on to your finger which will only knock your heart with pressures, "extra" responsibilities and obligations which are a parcel of marriage.

Once married, women are juggling between different roles and catering to different relationships. Be it the in-laws, husband or children women are engulfed in plethora of responsibilities. Right from demonstrating their culinary expertise to never ending routine household work like laundry, cleanliness, to nurturing the children, and if one is a working professional the burden graph is only uphill.

Minced with added responsibilities and underlying expectations of the husband and in-laws there is a lifestyle paradigm shift. Without partners support, be it a house wife or a married working women a healthy relation becomes a mirage and of course children are bound to suffer in such an unpleasant environment.

But again it is how the partners who decide to shape their married life, if they want to desist surfacing of marital problems. Understanding the partner, tremendous family support, splitting responsibilities, an appreciative behaviour, constructive approach towards marriage, spending quality time will lay foundation for a healthy married life.

The partners need to ensure that the relationship makes way for a happy married life and there should be family support at all level. Lubricating the trust factor that the husband is there as a support mechanism in a marriage will ease the stress level and boost confidence to deal with daily pressures.  Therefore key to a successful marriage is reciprocal concern and support.

Women also need to become more vocal with their problems and share with their partners as to what they feel. The changes that they need to make in their relationship. It not always about ruling the relationship. It is about making it happen. Marriage is also about creating a happy environment. It is only then children learn the right and can be bought up as good human beings.

The in-laws should be supportive. These days’ women are at par with men even at work place. Respecting the daughter in law and welcoming her in the house will help strike an emotional chord with her. She will feel like a part of the family. It is not about governing her. It is about giving her the space to adjust.  For more information visit @ https://www.betterlyf.com/relationships.php