One homework for two: how parents themselves discourage children from studyingPosted by Sharon Earls on July 12th, 2018 When adults are used to controlling each step of their child, doing homework is no exception. But often we forget that homework, it's independent, must be a child's business - and make mistakes that lead to sad consequences: from discord in the family to the loss of the schoolchild's educational motivation. Do not carp at the details So let him write as best as he can, but does his homework with pleasure. If the mother does not get to look at the "disgrace" that is going on in the notebook, you need to think about how to fix the situation without violence against the person. Do not do homework for your child No matter how motivated the adults are in this case - by fear of wounded pride or the desire to feel sorry for the child - they are doing him a disservice. Experts from AustralianWritings claim that the lack of the skill of doing homework will very soon affect the student's performance. In addition, the child will lose the opportunity to gain important skills that will be useful to him in life. It's about the ability to manage your time, the ability to separate important and secondary, the ability to concentrate. Do not scold the child for mistakes The essence of learning is to learn from your mistakes. So, dear parents, enjoy every mistake of your child! They help him to become stronger and better. Remember that a person who never makes a mistake does not achieve anything. Do not ignore the child's requests for help For example, the school was asked to prepare a report, for which you need to go to the park, the zoo, the theater. Or the task is so great that without family support, he simply can not cope. It happens that parents refuse to help because they are afraid to admit their incompetence in this matter. They pretend that they are busy, but they drop the child: "What, can not you do it yourself?" Can not. Therefore it is important, even if the parent does not understand the topic, go to the child and, together with him, get into the question. If necessary, open the encyclopedia, look at the Internet, in the end, call the teacher. Like it? Share it!More by this author |