Bondage Safety and Information for Beginners

Posted by Nancy on August 17th, 2018

Most men are psyched to learn that pumping frequently is a vital component of penis health, and they generally like to get most of their exercise with a partner. While standard sex is enough to get the blood flowing to the loins for many couples, some people like to mix things up. One kinky option partners might consider is bondage, a sex practice in which one partner is physically restrained in some way. There are a few things beginners would do well to know before breaking out the chains. Couples should consider the following bondage facts and tips to ease this practice into their sex lives.

Bondage: What is it?

During a bondage session, one partner is restrained in order to limit his or her ability to move or participate actively in sexual play. Usually, the wrists are bound with handcuffs, scarves, rope or some other device; they may be hooked to a bedpost or other nearby sturdy object, or they can simply be bound behind the back or held above the head. Advanced forms of bondage, such as binding of the ankles or securing of the whole body in some manner, are also possible.

The same is true if you decide to practice bondage-while the risks to life and limb don't rise to the level of extreme sports, it's nonetheless wise to make sure you practice it safely! Here are four general best-practices that can help make your bondage play safer and more enjoyable:

Engage in Bondage Only with Someone You Know Well!

Bondage involves one participant surrendering control to another. The control is usually physical, involving ropes or various types of cuffs, but may include mental elements (dominance/submission) as well. Does it make sense to give control of yourself or your body to a stranger? Or even an acquaintance? Absolutely not! Only allow yourself to be bound by someone you know you can trust! Having said that, I know that some people hear a siren call from the idea of giving up control to someone they don't know. If you absolutely feel you must do this, at a bare minimum have someone you know and trust present during your bondage adventure to help keep you safe

Communicate with Your Partner

Communication implies listening as well as talking! Listen especially closely if you are playing the dominant role, and use your eyes as well as your ears to listen. Watch for signs of pleasure and enjoyment, and be alert for signs of displeasure or discomfort. Stop if your partner is not having fun! If you are playing the submissive role, be sure to tell your partner if you don't like something, forcefully if necessary! Don't feel obligated to put up with any activity if you aren't enjoying it.