Divorce Mediation - An Effective Alternative to Court Litigation

Posted by NY Divorce Mediators on September 19th, 2018

Having to endure lengthy and expensive court proceedings can take its toll on everyone involved not only emotionally, but also financially. Divorce mediation has become a more desirable option—and it’s easy to see why. Mediation offers a more relaxed means to reach a resolution with minimal court days. Lawyers can still represent each side to help make the settlements on behalf of the parties involved.

Divorce mediation in Westchester NY is always a good idea if you are filing for a divorce. The key is to work with a highly experienced divorce lawyer or ‘attorney mediator’ who is qualified to do the job can help you and your spouse with reaching amicable terms that are mutually beneficial to both parties. Having a mediating lawyer also helps you to make an agreement that is tailored to your particular needs and situation. You can even reach a customized plan, which often is not possible under a courthouse setting. Settling your affairs in this manner also gives the lawyers the advantage of being able to listen to each side and simplify the process to come up with an agreement that satisfies both spouses.

Perhaps more importantly, mediation saves children involved in a divorce proceeding and spares them from the grief, agony, and stress that normal court proceedings can make. The process allows for the separating parents to work together in a peaceful and amicable manner, giving the children a tranquil environment and a less stressful and smoother transition as the process goes forward. The peaceful environment also prevents undue feelings of resentment or anger or other psychological effects that can cause issues to the children.

Interestingly, couples who have undergone mediation services often adhere to the set agreements better than court settlements. This is because they get to make the decisions on their own; they reach a mutual understanding that is amicable to both parties without being forced or ordered by a judge.

Going for co-mediation—which relies on one lawyer to handle the whole process—can also save couples on legal and process fees. By engaging one lawyer to oversee and manage the procedures, couples can save money from hiring a second lawyer to facilitate the divorce.

About the Author:

David Escoffery, Attorney Mediator at NY Divorce Mediators, has many years of experience in divorce mediation. NY Divorce Mediators specializes in divorce mediation, which is an expert service that enables clients to receive a fast, amicable and affordable divorce or separation with the help of a neutral attorney acting as divorce mediator.

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