The man's prejudgement about condoms

Posted by Silvio Gere on September 23rd, 2018

Some men have certain prejudgement about condoms that they use as an excuse to refuse to have sex protected.

1) She does not trust me, she thinks I have sexually transmitted diseases

For as long as you have not shown recent test results for sexually transmitted diseases, you have absolutely no guarantee that he is "clean". There is no question of trust, but of prevention! Some infected people have no symptoms, so he may be infected without even knowing it. You do not have to become paranoid, but it's not even right to make such a compromise.

2) Actually, she has a sexually transmitted disease, but she does not want to admit it

Of course, this is an argument with no logic: again, prevention is very important. Suggest to do both tests before giving up the condom and choosing another contraceptive method.

3) She has condoms in her bag, so she's a easy woman

The fact that you're wearing a condom does not make you a promiscuous person but a responsible person who knows the side effects that can occur after a round of sex.

4) Sex can no longer be spontaneous

Sex is just as spontaneous if you stop for a few seconds to apply the condom. It can be held in your bag or bedside, so you can get back to more fun activities in just a few moments.