How to save your marriage from falling apart?

Posted by Lene Søe Høymark on February 13th, 2019

Marriages and relationships are becoming increasingly challenging these days. There are many contributing factors here and regardless of the reasons or the factors that result in a breakup in any relationship both parties are hurt emotionally. It takes a long time for these hurt feelings to heal. In many instances these marriages and relationships could have been saved from falling apart. Just because the people involved did not know how to handle such issues correctly they ended up in a breakup. How to protect such marriages and relationships from falling apart?

One of the major reasons why relationships fall apart is because the issues between the partners are not addressed there and then. For too long the underlying issues are kept buried and the partners simply pretend that nothing is wrong while engaging in a cold war. Such an approach will surely result in a breakup sooner or later. The bottled up frustrations will flare up when one is least expecting them and when it happens in an unprepared time, people commit blunders, which only aggravate the situation.

Secondly when there are unaddressed issues couples fail to get help from a professional couples parterapeut. Many tend to think that only in extreme situations such as divorce a couples therapist should be consulted. This need not be so. You can consult a couples therapist as soon as you sense that something is not right. The point here is that you should not delay addressing the issues. The sooner you address your issues the better it is because you will be able to nip the issues in the bud and not let it root, become bigger making it challenging to address them.

Even when a couples therapist is engaged both partners do not show the same level of interest in meeting the therapist. This is often the case once things have already turned sour. If only you were to address the issues right at the start you would not have succumbed to such issues. Both parties are likely to be more open for mending the relationship. You just need to make that decision, whether you really want to protect that relationship. If you are really serious about it then you should not delay finding the best couples Parterapeut Aarhus has to offer so that you could act before it is too late.

The experience of the therapist very crucial here. Someone who specializes in couples therapy should be engaged to help you. If you work with someone who has limited or no experience, they could aggravate things instead of helping your marriage or relationship. Start searching for the best couples therapist in the region. Check the reputation of the therapist before selecting yours. Client rating and feedback are important while selecting the right couples therapist. Always take time to screen your therapists through personal consultation. You do not want to just blindly go to someone just based on what they have posted in their website.

Lene Søe Høymark is author of this article on parterapeut. Find more information about Parterapeut Aarhus.

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