Just what No One Tells An individual About (Muslim) Marriage Activities

Posted by fareed shakir on March 15th, 2019

Singles, singles and more Muslim singles... There are many them, in all shapes, sizes, races and with various qualifications. Yet, there won't seem to be to be one singleton sparking enough interest to state 'let's take this further and go for a coffee? ' Thus what's going wrong at these marriage events? Just how do single Muslims get married these days?

The particular hush voices and the deafening awkwardness is unavoidable as the singles wait around for the event to start. single Muslims marriage events

I wact a film tiresomely introduce themselves repeatedly. I see some public losing interest, playing on their phone or jumping onto their social media lives. I even see many bromances and womances blossoming prior to my eyes... huh?

Eventually when the intros are over, alleviation... Phew! Then the disappointment hits. Why? Because will be certainly no-one you want approach! You scroll down the set of names and still no-one captures your interests or is remotely like the person you want to marry! You get to the end of the list and start again expecting you overlooked someone, you realise you haven't and the stifled despair is clear to see... argh!

Half the folks you've met you don't even remember, many people turned up late and missed the intros completely! Clearly creating a good first impression isn't important when you are trying to meet your soul mate!

After much consideration and deliberation the singles send some asks for or accept 'requests to meet' for a one-to-one conversation.

These one-to-one interactions can leave you speechless at the lack of 'conversation'! At the other conclusion of the spectrum, astonishingly some singles are prepared to drop their lives, marry and move in together with you tomorrow! It makes you wonder, what on earth just happened?!

Lonely hearts walk away from these one-to-ones feeling completely underwhelmed. The brothers talk at the sisters, hoping something they said would hook up with them. While the sisters' preferred approach is a hostile and uncensored interrogation of the brothers' past human relationships and haraam (prohibited) activities... Awkward much!

Despite placing yourself through all of that and with little luck in meeting someone suitable, how do public get married today... or is it that they just don't?!

Some have been trying to get married for years. They attend marriage events and use online marriage websites yet they're still struggling to find 'the one'. There is a saying they're okay with it but their feeling of beat is palpable.

The brothers either don't really know what they want or they think the sisters are too particular. Whereas the sisters think the brothers are premature, untrustworthy and irresponsible... yikes!

Singles with no 'requests to meet' make a quick exit hoping no-one notices. While some cling on to hope that someone will speak to them at some point.

We watch the big event organisers keen to see the singles find marriage, seek out there singles and personally established up a 'request to meet' along with other singles. Nevertheless it takes some coaxing, cajoling and a huge dollop of luck to do this.

Regrettably sometimes there are also after-effects of these occasions... There are some brothers who can't take no for an answer and think following a single Muslimah (Muslim woman) to the bus stop or tracking her down on social media is a great move... Stalker much!!

It results in me with the question: how many brothers and siblings exchange numbers (not including bromances or womances) and actually take the next step to meet again?

So how does it leave these singles... Do Muslim public learn how to 'date' halal? Are they at these occasions because they would like to be there? Or is it because their siblings, friends and cousins are getting married and they feel left at the rear of!

These marriage events are a great resource for meeting other singles. They've successfully paired thousands of married couples. But are singles taking full benefit of them?

Are the singles buying a spark or even an inkling of one? Is the fact asking for too much as a first meeting? Thus does that then suggest love at first look is out of the question?