Here?s How You Can Give Your Partner a Passionate Erotic Massage

Posted by TomTaillor on March 26th, 2019

A good massage is almost always orgasmic, regardless of whether you are lying on your couch or in a luxurious spa. It is also one of the most effective forms of foreplay, especially for women. According to recent research, women do not just get off on penetration alone, which is not exactly a surprising revelation. An erotic massage before you have sex can be a great way to work up your libido. A massage, which is one the most intimate touching experience, can also help you communicate and connect physically and emotionally with your partner. Here’s how you can prepare for it.

How to create the perfect atmosphere

You do not necessarily have to have a plush bed in a huge room to give and enjoy a good massage. The atmosphere is what really matters. As long the place is nice and comfortable and the atmosphere is relaxed, your erotic massage experience can be amazing. To set the mood, dim the lights. Harsh and bright lighting can make for a distraction during a massage session. Light some scented candles or turn on some romantic fairy lights. You must also remember that the temperature of the room should not be too cold, because your partner will not be clothed.
 
What will you need

An erotic massage can be enjoyed best with the right accessories. The most basic of them are massage oils. A massage oil will help you slide your hand smoothly across their body and also nourish and moisturize their skin. You can use regular massage oils or for some more kink, lickable oils. There are also massage candles, which when lit, turn into a warm liquid that can then be rubbed over the skin in long, sensual strokes.

How to go about it

Mastering the art of massaging is what some people fail in. The key here is to remember that no matter which body part you will be massaging, you must be careful to not exert too much pressure or cause any pain. The initial touches should be soft and lingering, which will give your partner a sense of care and safety. Next, pour some oil onto your palm, rub them together to warm it up and then run your hands over your partner’s body gently. Run your fingers through their hair and graze their skin for the massage to be more erotic and arousing. You can also knead and press your thumbs on their body to remove tight spots and knots, which can be extremely relaxing for them.

How you take your erotic massage to the “next level” totally depends on you. However, to draw out the sexual tension even longer, you can also indulge in a few other things that do not involve penetrative sex, such as the use of non-penetrative toys like Tenga eggs, and even dry humping!