A motherly advice for young girls in love
Posted by Ravi Dash on August 17th, 2019
Falling in love is not only beautiful but also tricky, at the same time. It involves a lot of effort in terms of scouting for the right candidate, giving him time to understand his wavelength, financial contributions towards great experiences and lastly, being ready to start all over again, if things don’t work out. But this process is a part and parcel of life till you find your ultimate match. During this process, you shall come across a lot of wrong ones who will not only drain you emotionally but also physically. To avoid such circumstances, here are a few precautions, right from the heart of a mother, to help you deal with your problems better.
Don’t forget to be social
When women fall in love, they leave everything behind and give all they have, be it time or money, to their partner. This gets her separated from her real loved ones such as friends or family. Therefore, you need to prioritize your people. Always ensure to have time for the ones who stuck around with you. Its ok to leave your partner over a weekend and meet your friends or family. At bad times, it is these people who shall come to your rescue, not your partner.
Protect yourself
It is very important to align your heart and brain to seek happiness, the core of our being. At times, women are expected to go with the flow and indulge in unprotected sex to prove their worth to their partner. The best way to deal with a situation after unprotected sex is to immediately rush to the chemist and pop an emergency contraceptive pill. You must also speak about it to a friend or a family member and gain their assistance to visit a gynac, if need be.
Build emotional strength
After a few heartbreaks, women tend to be stronger than before. The best way to deal with a heartbreak is to avoid loneliness in young women. You must realise that your life should not revolve around one person, he or she cannot have the limelight over your closest family or friends as they would be new, compared to the one who have seen you grow up. The best way to avoid this is to ensure that the terms of the relationship are led on trust and space. You must not hesitate to meet your friends or family anytime without being answerable to anyone.
Travel the world
Travelling the world teaches you many things. You can learn to be independent. You can embrace new experience. And, you can get an opportunity to meet new people. Traveling makes you a better human being by giving you the wealth of languages, cultures and tradition and friends. If you are inspired by traveling, you must read Elizabeth Gilbert’s, Eat-Pray – Love to give you a perspective of life, you have never experienced before.
Be ambitious
When in relationship, young women often forget to focus on their careers. They follow the steps of their partner and lead to damnation. Damnation, either by forgetting who they really are in the race of being a good girlfriend or wife. You can miss out the precious years of your life, if these things are not taken care of. Therefore, who ever you may meet, make sure that one of the qualities that you fall for is also support, both emotionally and physically. You must not hesitate to move states for an opportunity, as your relationship should be founded on trust that no borders can divide.
With these few measures, you can not only lead a good life with your partner but also constantly stay in touch with your true self which ultimately leads to happiness.
