Aspects Of Good And Healthy Relationships

Posted by Febian Allon on October 21st, 2019

Building and maintaining a relationship has many ups and downs. It is certainly not an easy road. No relationship is my default perfect. However, through conscious efforts people make it worth the while. And in the process a person must always remember that there is nothing more precious than a relationship. Relationships are precisely what make us human beings. They make our lives worth living and cherishing. They add meaning to our lives.

A healthy relationship is what we all deserve at some point of your life. A healthy relationship is the one that lets both the individual grow. A healthy relationship allows an individual to steer clear of issues resolutely. A healthy relationship is the one where despite differences the two individuals are able to deal with the differences resolutely. In this article we shall be focusing on some of the key aspects of healthy relationships. These aspects are the pillars of success in building strong and robust relationships.

Self love and self esteem-

what exactly is self love? Why is loving yourself so important? And what does it exactly mean? Loving yourself means to be in peace with your true self; to accept your true self; to accept who you and embrace and strive to improve every day (in your own way). It is an important aspect in a relationship as it will ensure that as an individual you are happy. It means that you are a happy partner. A true live for yourself can be attained by acknowledging your strongest points and figuring out the weakest one, so that you can work on them in conjunction with your partner.

Communication is the key-

Good communication is the backbone of an excellent relationship. It is precisely how you steer clear of misunderstandings, issues, problems and miscommunications. It is extremely important that you listen to your partner and try to understand his/her point of view or perspective on matters. Listen to what he/she has to say. Always be expressive about how you feel about a particular situation. Try to understand your partner. Always make yourself clear to avoid confusion.

Honesty is the best policy-

as the saying goes, ‘Honesty is the best policy’. It is true in most aspects of live, including relationships. Honesty is a must in a relationship. Always be honest about everything. A relationship cannot be built on lies. Even if the truth is bitter, always be honest about it and also apologetic about it. Honesty is the cornerstone of any relationship.

Counselling if needed-

Professional relationship counselling should be the first form of response where communications fail. If your relationship is facing any difficulty, it is important that you and your partner collectively see a good counsellor, sooner the better.

Give each other space-

Giving your partner the space for individual growth is really important. No individual should feel the need to be trapped and confined in a relationship. A good relationship promotes individual growth.