How To Use Sex Toys in Your Bedroom

Posted by iadorelove on December 6th, 2019

If you are thinking about the fact that people do not use sex toys, you’re completely wrong! Research has confirmed that using sex toys is very common nowadays, and it is hard to find someone that has never tried one. And the trend is growing exponentially. Sex Toys consumption has no gender and it is definitely a useful tool to improve and strengthen your relationship.

There are several false clichés about sex toys. Let’s examine some of them.

False cliché #1: Sex toys are only for masturbation

Sex toys aren’t mean to be used only for personal pleasure, i.e. masturbation. They are a great companion for any sexual intercourse with one or more partners. Toys aren’t used alone: it is always recommended to use a quality lube and a cleaner for after care. When it is time to look beautiful sexy and tempting, you may want to tease your partner wearing some sexy lingerie. Size is never an issue, skinny or plus size, how cool is it to look gorgeous? Another classic usage is while having a warm shower or bath with your significate one, with your favorite body product and your waterproof toy. Toys’ users are usually open-minded and willing to try new things alone and with the partner.

False cliché #2: Your partner would feel frustrated if you use sex toys.

There is absolutely no good reason to get frustrated if your partner use a toy to reach an orgasm or increase pleasure. It’s all about communication between the partners, and surely everyone will find mutual benefits by sharing a toy. you worried that if you bring a toy with Bath and body into the bedroom, it would hurt the feelings of your partner? Shopping together is always fun!

False cliché #3: Sex toys can be physically harmful

Always use sex toys properly according to their design and their scope as shown on the packaging. Best brands always design toys which shape is safe for your body. But there is more. When looking for a new toy, you may want to double check the materials used and be sure that the toy you like is body safe. If you are into BDSM practices, like floggers and restraints and other kinky practices, it is a good habit to establish a safe word.

False cliché #4: In case you use these toys too much, you won’t be able to reach orgasms

That is totally false. Far from giving any medical advice, if you are afraid you may want to consult a sexual expert.