How to talk to him so he can hear

Posted by feminissimo on December 10th, 2019

 As it's commonly believed, men from Mars, women from Venus. It is not surprising that very often there are situations when we do not hear and do not understand each other. If you think that you should not read this article and do not need to know how to communicate with the opposite sex, because you do not have a problem in this, here are a few weighty arguments.

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1. You can build a career. Feminists continue to resent, but most managers are still men. And it is on them that your career depends, so you need to be able to communicate with them and negotiate.

2. Develop relationships with relatives and romantic relationships. Anyone, even the most successful woman, needs a man nearby. The one on whom in the evening you can throw a leg, lying on the couch or complain about a hard day's work. Marilyn Monroe herself claimed that career does not warm at night. As for your relatives, you have a father, grandfather, brother-in-law, and sometimes you have to find out important questions with him.

3. Competent and correct communication with men can help you to get what you want: a discount in the store, to learn expensively, to pay off the traffic policeman, etc.

We are sure you have realized the importance of this topic. Now we move on to the rules of communication with the man.

- Do not expect a man to storm emotions. If, communicating with him, you think that he is insensitive and "dry", you are wrong. He's just a man, not a hysteric. And those specimens that spray with expression and emotion, most likely, are not the most worthy men. Of course, there are exceptions. When a favorite football team plays, a man can show absolutely different emotions: from laughter to deep sadness. This is where the man's power manifests itself - to show relevant emotions.

- It is important to realize that 99% of men are not very talkative. They are excellent listeners and can even joke about their lives, but no more. They do not look into their souls for nothing.

- As mentioned above, men are great listeners, but it is also important for them that the woman is able to listen to them in response. This is the golden rule of communication. In addition, if you've seen enough detectives or read enough psychology, you can "read" a person as an open book.

- Keep in mind that men perceive words literally and react accordingly. You've probably come across the fact that when you send a gentleman to the shop for food, you can say you want to buy food "at your own discretion. As a result, you were probably disappointed. No useful products, no juices. That's because the man bought what he wanted. So always choose the words carefully.

- Men are like children, it is important to them that they are praised, rejoiced at their victories. It is safe to say that you will be honored with all the praise speeches.

- How often, going to the company of friends, you paid attention to the "joints" of other women who without stopping "sawing" their men. Think about whether you made the same mistakes. Perhaps, yes. He is a man, it is important for him to come home and relax, next to his beloved. If you constantly "saw him", he will stop being adequate, will exhaust his emotions and will not want to try anymore for you. How to ask him to do something, you ask. Your job is to inspire you to do great things: to win back a promotion at work, to get a discount on building materials, to bring children to school. And all this with the phrases "And what would I do without you, unsightly?

- Understand the simple truth: men are fundamentally different from us in that they do not have to pronounce themselves. This is something we need to share with a friend or loved one when we hear a secret or have difficulty. Men, in turn, can keep everything to themselves.

Love, appreciate and communicate with each other!