Premature ejaculation: Nothing to be ashamed of, tips and tricks on how to deal

Posted by Mike bale on January 22nd, 2020

I am a 45 year old, but unfortunately take antidepressants which destroyed my sex drive.  I started taking and have been using various pills for close to a year now, but that has caused me another problem, premature ejaculation. When I first started using the pill was because erectile dysfunction kind of hit me out of nowhere as I was under a lot of pressure at work, my personal situation was going through a lot of chaos, and the holiday season was upon us.

When I went to my doctor to buy priligy australia and told him my situation he prescribed some tablets. So that evening my wife and I had just started a sexual session, and my erection worked great and I thought everything was going to be great.  After falling asleep, I woke up with a major erection, that would’ go way. It was the first time in a long time, which I had woken up with an erection, so as you can imagine, I was beyond happy.  The next morning my wife and I started another session, but after just starting, I experienced a premature ejaculation for the first time in my life.

Even though the pills I’ve been taking have helped me one issue, it looks like they have caused another one. Even since taker Cialis, I’ve noticed some positives. The erections are amazing when the pill starts working, but I recommend starting with the lowest dosage available, as having an erection for a long time can be very painful and might even cause an injury. Another advantage which I noticed over time is that the pill has started to help with my controlling my night urinating frequency as well. I’m not sure if this is something that the pill was supposed to do, but in the past I would wake up every two hours or so, and now, I wake up once at the most during a t typical night, and most nights I thankfully sleep through the entire night.

I have thought have noticed some negatives since starting to take Cialis for my erectile dysfunction issue. First off, which I know I shouldn’t complain about, having an erection for 12 hours should be a positive, but sleeping with an erection can be very non comfortable. I’ve also notice that at time I tend to get some pretty massive headaches and have been getting some pretty heavy joint pain which I have not had in the past, which has been causing me concern.  I also have been having lower back pain that at timed has kept me from standing up. Also at times when I’m taking the drug I tend to feel hot and warm, which I’m not sure if it’s a side effect of the drug. The final problem that I have noticed is that I’m having a slight problem reaching ejaculation, usually during my second sessions with my wife. But the biggest issue that I’ve noticed from taking Cialis and the most important one is that I’m having more issues with premature ejaculation.

I know a lot about this topic as my ex husband dealt with premature ejaculation for many years.  There is many reasons that premature ejaculation can occur. Premature ejaculation can have causes that aren't due to underlying disease. Examples include individual variation or sexual inexperience.  

Premature ejaculation is an orgasm and emission of semen occurring just before or shortly after beginning sexual intercourse.  Many men world wide go through this and have dealt with this issue for awhile.  It is very common and nothing to be embarrassed about.  My ex husband dealt with premature ejaculation for many years while him and I were together.  And coming from a female's perspective I can say at first when it was happening that I was kind of feeling as though my ex husband wasn't attracted to me,  because the sex wasn't prolonged.  And then sometimes I felt as though maybe I was very attractive and that is why he was ejaculating so quickly.  

The fact is that it didn't matter that this was happening.  There were things we did to prolong the sex.  At first we tried sexual aides in hoping that they would help this issue that he was happening.  Some of the things we tried did help.  We would have more than one session of sex.  So the first time would be quick, and the second time would prolong a bit longer.  That worked for awhile until it just seemed as though he continued to ejaculate quickly.  So the next step was going to the doctor. 

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