The Top 3 Approaches/Suggestions On How To Meet New Women

Posted by hasnainkhatri on March 27th, 2020

Suggestion #1: Create A Weekly Ritual Around it

As a single guy in 2015, there are 3 main things we want to know, those are: How to meet sexy women, how to meet hot women, and how to meet beautiful women. The dating game can be something you either love or hate. Like with me, you could also start off hating it, and then have it grow on you. There are guys out there, as I'm sure you know by now, that absolutely cannot tolerate being single (in most cases it makes them feel like they're alone), and yet there are other guys that fear having to commit to one woman. I don't think it's good to be an extreme case of either one of these. What I will say however is that I think it's very important to be able to feel OK (or at peace) being single. Patience is truly a good thing, and I feel it takes knowing how to meet new women, consistently, to really be able to find one you are truly compatible with. You don't want to just settle for someone do you? The inability so many guys have of doing this I feel largely contributes to the high divorce rate our society has.

So with all this said, I think as a single guy, its important that you make learning how to meet new women, one of your very top priorities. In fact, I think you should create daily, weekly and monthly rituals around all the things in your life that are of the highest importance. The dating game can at times be exhausting, seem never ending, and be very frustrating. Because of this I think it's important to be setting aside time, every week, to go out and practice learning, how to meet new women. There are a number of ways to do this.

Creating a focused, weekly ritual around the goal of learning how to meet new women, will speed up the time it takes you to reach your goals (whatever those are). Think of how many single guys aren't making a weekly ritual out of going out every week, and are maybe only going out once or twice a month (this is not uncommon by the way). Think of how much longer finding a girlfriend, or even just building confidence with women, is going to take them.

By making a weekly ritual of going out on certain days at certain times, you are learning how to be more confident with women, getting in-field experience, and learning new things constantly. You're simply getting better and better at interacting with women all the time. An example might be that you go out 3 nights per week, every week, from 9:00pm to 1:00am, and talk to women in high volume environments like bars or clubs. Maybe you make it a point to attend a group fitness class 3 days a week in which you'll talk to at least 1-2 women. Maybe your ritual is going on 3 dates per week from learning how to meet women online.

Point here is to be doing it every week, without fail. Knowing how to meet beautiful women, attract them, and interact with them is a very serious matter. As a single guy, you need to start treating it as such. There is no better way to do this than by making a weekly ritual out of going out and practicing your social skills with women every week. This should also be something that's fun and that you look forward to.

Suggestion #2: Meet Women From More Than Just One Source

When contemplating how to meet new women, it's never a good idea to put all your eggs in one basket. If going out 3 nights per week, and making approaches is all you do, while that's still more than what most guys are doing, it's still not the optimal way to get the most out of being single. It's also not the optimal way of learning how to be more confident with women, in general. For instance, going out 3 nights per week, means that you may be learning how to meet women in bars, but it also means there's probably certain types of girls that you're never running into. The girls I usually meet while out at night in bars/clubs, as a whole, are different than the girls I meet online, or the girls I meet at the gym, or at local Meetup events.

I firmly believe that, as a man that is striving to be better at building confidence with women, its very important to be interacting with more than one type of girl. Join a fitness club, and take group classes like Yoga for example.

In this day and age, knowing how to meet women on the internet is huge: Match.com, OK Cupid, Hinge, Tinder, Plenty Of Fish, are a few of the most popular sites. You'll often find more worldly and educated women online than you would in, say a bar or club.

Local Meetup events can be a great place to meet more career oriented women.

Get creative. Other great places to meet women include: Coffee shops, bookstores, the beach, outdoor festivals and events, the mall, and tanning salons.

Suggestion #3: How To Meet Women Online

Lets face it guys, its 2015, and online dating should not be considered strange anymore. I've briefly touched on online dating already, but here I will go into more detail. I think a lot of guys don't realize that it can commonly be just as hard for a woman (even a very attractive one) to find a boyfriend than it is for a guy to find a girlfriend. While guys may be more interested in how to attraction works, as far as finding a compatible partner is concerned, I think it's a very similar experience for both sexes. Hot girls

For this reason, and because the internet is making life more convenient for people in many other ways, a lot of women are turning to online dating to speed up the process of finding a boyfriend. Believe me this a good thing, as it just gives you another avenue through which you can meet women (ideally you want 4 of them). I suggest, if you're new to the subject of learning how to meet women online, that you try a few different sites and find one or two that you prefer.

Match.com is a paid site, where you typically pay for 3 months up front. Understand that since it's a paid site, women on Match are more serious about the idea of finding a man to date long term. For this reason, you'll find less flakiness with the women on this site. This site is on the opposite side of the spectrum as Tinder. On Tinder, you'll probably find more attractive women (overall), but what you'll also find is more girls that don't take it seriously.

Many girls, especially younger girls, will get on Tinder for many of the same reasons they get on social media sites like Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. Tinder now has a Snapchat like feature whereby you can snap a photo of yourself, and add words to it. Like the other social media apps, a lot of girls will use Tinder just to mess around with. You might even prefer the lighter feel that a dating app like Tinder (or Hinge), has than one such Match or OK Cupid. I suggest you test several of them out for a few weeks and go with what suits your goals. In my next article, I'll discuss the different approaches you should take towards Match.com as opposed to Tinder by the way. For example, I've found that a very similar profile gets pretty different results on these two sites.

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