Mastering Seduction: How to Stop Being a Nice GuyPosted by Nick Niesen on October 27th, 2010 One of the worst nightmares for a guy when it comes to seducing and dating women is falling in the trap of being a ?nice guy?. Although you must always treat a woman with respect and dignity, it?s absolutely vital you do not become another ?nice guy? around women. So what exactly is a ?nice guy?? Well, a nice guy is a regular guy, a good guy. To cut to the chase, nice guys don?t have a clue about what they?re doing. - They buy roses on every other date they get with a new girl. But more importantly, nice guys are nice because deep down, they feel insecure. And who wants to be dating an insecure guy? Okay so here?s the big question: how do you get a girl to pay attention to you, when there are literally billions of other guys on the planet? Well, start by being unusual. Unusual in an enchanting way. Here?s one of the best strategies: let her have a peak and shut the door. BAM! You get the idea. Picture Will Smith, in the ?Hitch? movie. Now let?s analyze that great little scene. You can see that Will Smith obviously knows what he?s doing. He doesn?t ask her phone number directly, he patiently waits for her to get interested. And just at the moment when he feels she?s finally taken off her built-in radar, he leaves her. Let other guys do the talking, let other guys buy expensive gifts, let other guys sink their own ships by being too nice and too cheap with women. Don?t do the same mistakes that thousands of guys do when seducing women. It?s all about the attitude. Display the right attitude (stop being a nice guy) to build your way to more success with women, and smile when you see guys behaving like ass-kissers around women. Ass-kissers become friends. Confident guys (non-nice-guys) become daters. Like it? Share it!More by this author |