Dating a Younger Woman in 5 Easy StepsPosted by Nick Niesen on October 27th, 2010 The question. Today's question is from one of our readers who wishes to stay anonymous; we'll call him Bill. Read the question again. Notice how Bill is already convinced that the younger woman he seeks will not be interested in someone his age. This is a self fulfilling belief which is virtually guaranteed to come true. If you believe deep down that you're going to fail, then you will. The real answer. In short, yes, you can absolutely find a younger woman that's right for you. You just need to set your target, take action, and stay the course. How can you get started in the right direction? First, take a look deep down inside and figure out exactly why you want to meet a younger woman. And then think about what this perfect woman would be like. Describe her in as much detail as you possible can. Then, write it down on a piece of paper. List her age, physical appearance, personality traits, hobbies, likes and dislikes, etc. Once your have described the perfect woman for you in great detail, fold up that piece of paper and carry it with you for 1 week. Imagine that you are already with her. What will you do? What will you talk about? Where will you go? REALLY feel it and get into the emotion of it -- How will you feel when you are with her? All of this may sound silly, but do you know that by simply writing down what you want, you increase your chances of getting it by 80%! Just think about that one for a minute... Social stigmas and why do you care? You don't. Our society is full of social stigmas. We're so busy being concerned about "what others will think" that we we're afraid to pursue our own dreams. Yes, many people love to pass judgment on others, but that's their choice and their right. Why they do it is a larger topic for another day, but it's really not important here. No one else can possibly know what's right for you, so why listen to them? A wise person once said, "What someone else thinks about you is none of your business". Is it true that most women want someone around their own age? This is completely untrue! Fact is, each of us has different and unique wants and needs. Your goal and single focus should be finding the perfect woman for you. Period. 5 easy tips for attracting and dating younger women. Younger women are often attracted to traits like maturity (like their daddy), more money and higher social status, masculinity, leadership abilities, confidence, and composure, so it's important for you to focus on whichever of these traits you possess. 1) Be yourself. 2) Keep it light and fun.. 3) Be the leader. Be the man.. 4) Don't act like a "perv".. 5) Give her some space.. Stay tuned, more soon? We encourage our readers to send us their most pressing online dating or relationship questions. If you haven't told us your question yet, go to AskDanAndJennifer.com and do it now. Copyright 2006, AskDanAndJennifer.com , "Your Online Dating Questions Answered" ? All rights reserved. Like it? Share it!More by this author |