Meeting Someone Through Adult Personals; Your First Date

Posted by Nick Niesen on October 27th, 2010

Lucky you, you?re making plans to meet that special someone, encountered online through adult personals. You?ve emailed, shared in chat rooms, and talked over the phone several times. Now you are ready for the next step?your first date!

The First Date with Someone You?ve Met Online

When making plans to meet for the first time with someone you?ve met online, keep it simple. You want to plan something low key so the two of you have plenty of opportunity to talk. This is because you need to be sure the attachment felt through adult dating personals is as close face to face, as it was online.

Chances are one or both of you traveled a distance in order to meet. Something relaxing, then, is in order. Below are several ideas for first-time dates that are simple but fun, and allow plenty of time for eye contact and sharing:

Something as simple as a late afternoon stroll through a park, hand in hand, feeding pigeons and doves while sitting on a bench, can be surprisingly relaxing. It also provides ample opportunity to talk. If things go well, top the evening off by renting a classic movie; something romantic. Watch the movie by candlelight, eating pizza and sipping wine.

What could be more relaxing or romantic than a late night picnic, gazing at the stars? The perfect setting would be a balcony, or backyard patio ? fenced for privacy? If you live near the coast, a picnic on the beach, a lit pier, or onboard a boat would also be fun.

Remember, the idea is to make use of every minute alone together. You don?t want distractions or crowds to rob you of the chance to get to know each other better.

Testing Compatibility

If things go well, you can always plan something more exciting for your next get together. But, this all important first date should be reserved for the purpose of becoming better acquainted and testing compatibility.

Store browsing at a mall is a great way to test your compatibility and discover mutual interests. What types of books are of most interest, what hobbies are shared, what tastes in furnishings, and what about styles of clothing? These things and more can be discovered as the two of you stroll through various stores, ?sightseeing.?

By keeping your date simple, focus is kept on each other. Providing the opportunity to determine whether the two of you connect as well in person as you did through adult personals online.