Sharing intimacy is the best way to fix a marriage

Posted by Nick Niesen on October 27th, 2010

In a recent conducted by Brigham Young University, it was found that 86.1% of men viewed porn dvds in the past year compared to only 31% of women. Aside from this, around 21% of the men viewed porn almost every day while only 1% of the women did the same.

Now with these figures, you might ask, why do people buy porn dvds? Well there are actually a lot of answers to that question. Perhaps the most important one concerns couples who are on the road to breaking up. Some people claim that with the husband getting more engrossed with pornography, the marriage starts to disintegrate. Sometimes the man will look for adventure and will try to get it on with someone else because he can?t get the same sexual satisfaction with his wife. But this isn?t entirely true.

In most cases, a marriage breaks down because of lack of intimacy, true, but the lack of intimacy is not due to the husband giving attention to xxx porn dvds. It is due to a lot of aspects that the couple consider as taboo. It is due to many other factors and in most cases sex is the only way to resolve it.

Did you know that in several studies, researchers claim that the best time to resolve a problem is after sex? This is because the couple is both tired and relaxed. It is then easier to talk about a lot of topics as you both tend to listen to what the other have to say. Conversation is improved because the couple is in an intimate situation and it is so much harder to break out into a shouting match as both of you will probably not be in the mood for arguing.

So, many marriage counselors suggest that married couples do something to spice up their marriage. For those who have the budget, they can go on their second honeymoon. For the others who have kids and won?t have enough financial resources to travel, you can get intimate with your partners while at home. How about some porn dvd download? Or perhaps you can get cheap porn dvds from the nearest video store. You can then arrange for the kids to be away for a night, take them to grandma?s or the nearest relative so you and your partner can have the night all for yourself.

Now that?s set, you can then proceed to make a nice dinner, take a bath, dress up and wait for your partner to come home. You might want to set a romantic ambience in the house. To do this, you can turn off all the lights and use a candle. Or you can turn on sensual music. Nice huh? After eating you can perhaps take a walk in the park or if you and your partner so decide, you can go and have a conversation at the patio.

When its almost time for bed, you can both watch adult dvds to spice the evening! Sure, porn dvds aren?t the only way to fix a marriage that?s almost broken, but these are also not the main cause of the problem. Share a little intimacy once in a while and watch things he likes, who knows, maybe you?ll like it too, then you can both experiment, which makes the experience more worthwhile.