Divorce Help: Vital Steps to Recovering From a DivorcePosted by Nick Niesen on October 27th, 2010 The very first thing you must realize is that you will not die because of divorce. It has happened to millions of people before you and it will happen to millions of people after you. You must not think about pain or dwell upon what was yesterday. The more you think about the past the worse it will hurt, and the longer it will take for you to recover. You must think about yourself. You cannot allow yourself to just sit and waste away. You need to take hold of yourself and go on living. In order to counter bad feelings, you must keep yourself busy - clean your house, wash your car, write out a budget, study or go to work. Keep yourself moving and working on the kinds of things that make you happy. It is extremely important that you express the feelings of anger you are carrying or they will eat you alive. The best way to deal with anger is to know exactly what you are angry about and then choose the most suitable way to express your anger to the person that has made you angry. To recover from the trauma of divorce, you must allow enough time for the healing process to be completed and be positive that tomorrow will be a happier day for you. Like it? Share it!More by this author |